Bean's World

I'm back and with a Disney Discount!

2008-09-23T07:38:00.002-05:00

Well, the Disney trip went off with a MASSIVE success - something I will never forget in my lifetime - the first trip with my miracle boy. And we were able to do it cheaply and not feeling like we left out a thing. But that's for another post. Which I will get to soon - promise.

And I'm sorry that I haven't written anything but work has been INSANE since that time and I'm still trying to catch up.

But in the interim, I wanted to announce one discount you don't often see - a freebie from DISNEY!!!!

Yes, for those of you who still admit to having birthdays . . . Disney will give you a free day in the park on your actual day. Or, if you are one of the few who are lucky enough to have an annual pass to disney or are already paying for a package which includes tickets for your entire stay, they will give you a gift card to use ONLY on your birthday, in the amount of a one day ticket (adult price if you are an adult, kid price if you are a kid) to spend on merchandise - but there are restrictions.

Here is the link to give you the details.

My Disney Creations, Thanks to the Disboards, Part 1.

2008-09-02T09:16:00.005-05:00

These are the family "outfits" I made, a t-shirt for Mr. Bean, one for me and a onesie for Lil' Bean. One of the family outfits we're going to wear for pictures at Chef Mickey's and the other is to wear for the Magic Kingdom, I haven't decided which - any suggestions? If you want to see a picture close up, just click on it.

Disney Creations I made thanks to the Disboards! Part 2

2008-09-02T09:10:00.003-05:00

These are the onesies I made for Lil' Bean. The light blue ones are for the trip to Disney at the airport and say "I'm on my way to Disney and it's my first time!". The red one is for the trip home and says "I'm skating my way home from Disney!" because it has a hockey mickey on it (the sport Mr. Bean wants Lil' Bean to play). The orange one is actually for Halloween for Lil' Bean to wear during the day before he changes into his costume.

My Disney Creations thanks to the Disboard! Part 3

2008-09-02T09:00:00.005-05:00

Here are my bibs and pillowcases! I made the light blue pillowcase.

Other Ways to Save a Buck, Disney Style

2008-09-02T08:08:00.003-05:00

So, as I said in a previous post, Mr. Bean, lil' Bean and I are doin' it Disney style this weekend. I'm SOOO excited because it is Lil' Bean's first trip and I never in a million years thought this day would come. As my original readers know, Mr. Bean and I are Disney fanatics, having gone twice while dating, on our honeymoon and almost every year since. But, with all of our fertility issues, on my part, we never thought we would get to share the joy with our very own child.

So, now that this day is finally here, we can't wait! In true discounting style, we are going now because we get free dining. That's right folks, all of our food is FOR FREE! This is actually our fourth year doing this. It makes life much easier not having to worry about paying for meals. We get one table service restaurant meal (which includes entree, drink and dessert), one counter service meal (sandwich/salad, drink, dessert) and one snack, which we usually use for breakfast (what is it about vacations that make you hungry for all three meals?). It's more food than you could possibly ever need, and still free!

Second, a couple of other discount things I have done this trip:

1. I need water for Lil' Bean for his formula and for us to not dehydrate. Florida water is YUCKY; but I don't want to pay $2.50 per bottle at Disney world. So what did I do? I ordered 24 1/2-liter bottles from Costco and had it delivered to my resort Wilderness Lodge for the low price of $7.80, including shipping!

2. I'm packing his formula, diapers, wipes and food in the suitcase so I don't have to buy it there.

3. I joined a group who pitched in together for the Disney Photopass CD so we could have the special Disney photographers take a zillion photos of us as a family in front of Cinderella's castle and more. So instead of paying $100, I only paid $16.99. And I can print as many or as little photos as I want. Even better, I was able to get in on a special photo session at the Disney Resort we are staying which is 30 minutes with a photographer with our family and only had to pay $25 instead of the normal $75 they charge because we bought the photopass CD early.

4. And my most fun project of saving items: I made some of our clothes and other items! You see, for Lil' Bean's first trip, I wanted to make some special disney t-shirts, onesies, bibs, and pillow cases to commemorate the event. So I had some great help from my friends at the Disboard create awesome designs so we could have "family" outfits for pictures at Disney I talked about in paragraph 3.

I then bought (1) 6 onesies for Lil' Bean for $2 each at Wal-Mart; (2) a light blue pillowcase for $2.50 from Wal-Mart (for characters to autograph at the Liberty Tree Tavern, Chef Mickey and Crystal Palace character restaurants); (3) 4 t-shirts for Mr. Bean and I for only $2 each at A.C. Moore when they had them on sale; and (4) I bought transfer paper from A.C.Moore, five sheets for $5.98, reg. $10.98. I bought 3 packets, in case of mistakes as this was my first time. I also cheated and had some designs given to Cafe Press who made me two bibs for $8 each and one really nice pillow for $15. The rest I made myself, using a regular printer and a cheap iron. It was surprisingly easy to do in spite of my initial fear in making them and ruining a shirt or something.

So, see how they turn out in the next post!

Scenario Sunday

2008-08-31T14:42:00.004-05:00

I'm going to try a new series called "Scenario Sunday". Since I started all of this coupon craziness, all my Sundays are the same: (1) wake up early, (2) feed lil' Bean, (3) make the much needed coffee, (4) cut out all the new coupons in my two papers while lil' Bean plays and watches me in action, (5) coordinate my coupons with the savings from my fave stores CVS, Rite Aid, Target and Wal-Mart using Hot Coupon World, Money Saving Mom, A Full Cup and others I have listed before such as I Heart CVS and I Heart Rite Aid, (6) wait for Mr. Bean to get up, and (7) off I go to shop, shop, SHOP!!! So I figured I would try to add to the list "blogging" and give you the scenarios I came up with that day and how they turned out. One caveat, however, next week I won't be able to do this because we will be off Disney World!!!

So anyway, here is what I did today.

First, I went to CVS. I did 5 separate transactions. I went in with a $3 ECB and a $2 ECB.

1. 1 pantene conditioner for $3.33, reg. $4.99
1 pantene shampoo for $3.33, reg. $4.99
1 pantene hairspray for $3.33, reg. $4.99
1 Dawn dishsoap for $00.99, reg. $1.99
1 Dawn dishsoap for $00.99, reg. $1.99
-$1 coupon for 2 dawn dishsoap
-$3.33 pantene coupon - buy one shampoo and one conditioner, 1 styling product free
-$1 pantene coupon
-$2 when you spend $10 CVS coupon
-$3.00 ECB from previous trip to store
Total OOP $2.07, received $2 in ECB's for Pantene.

2. 1 Febreeze noticeables starter Kit for $6.99, reg. $8.49
2 covergirl wetslick amazement lip gloss for $5.99 each
-$5 febreeze coupon
-$5.99 covergirl coupon (B1G1 free)
-$1 covergirl coupon
-$2 when you spend $10 CVS coupon
-$2 ECB from previous transaction
Total OOP $4.18, received $5.99 in ECB's for Covergirl.

3. 2 Colgate Advanced toothpastes for $2.99 each, reg. $3.89
2 Cascade dishwasher detergent for $3.49, reg. $6.49
-$1.50 colgate coupon
-$1.50 colgate coupon
-$2.00 cascade coupon
-$2.00 cascade coupon
-$2.00 when you spend $10 CVS coupon
Total OOP $4.84, Receive $4 in ECB's for Colgate.

4. 2 Covergirl Outlast lipstick, buy one for $9.99, get one free.
1 Revlon clear nailpolish for $4.59.
-$9.99 Covergirl coupon (B1G1 free)
-$2 revlon CVS coupon from previous transaction's receipt
-$1 covergirl coupon
-$2 when you spend $10 CVS coupon
Total OOP $00.44, received no ECB's

5. 2 Neutrogena volume mascara's for $5.99 each, reg. $8.49 each
-$3.00 when you buy two neutrogena coupons
-$2 when you spend $10 CVS coupon
-$5.99 ECB's from previous transaction
Total: $1.31 OOP, received $6 in ECB's for Neutrogena.

So I spent a total of $12.84 and have $12 in ECB's left.

I then went to Rite Aid. I actually had to go to two because the first Rite Aid didn't have the best deal of the week, but I found it at the second.

So, at the first Rite Aid, I bought:

1 pantene expressions conditioner for $4.99, reg. $6.49
1 pantene expressions shampoo for $4.99, reg. $6.49
1 pantene detangler for $3.50, reg. $4.99
2 Bic 2 permanent marker set for $00.33 each, reg. $2.29
1 Bic 2 permanent marker, ultrafine for $00.33 each, reg. $2.29
1 Fructis Garnier shampoo for $3.50, reg. $4.19
1 Fructis Garnier conditioner for $3.50, reg. $4.19
1 crest whitening toothpaste for $2.49, reg. $3.29
3 crest pro-health mouthwash for $4.99 each, reg. $6.49
-$1 garnier fructis manufacturer coupon which was on item
-$1 garnier fructis manufacturer coupon which was on item
-$1.50 garnier fructis coupon
-$1.50 garnier fructis coupon
-$1 pantene rite aid coupon
-$4.99 pantene coupon (B2G1 free)
-$1 crest pro health mouthwash coupon
-$1 crest pro health mouthwash coupon
-$1 Bic coupon when you buy 2
-$1 crest coupon
-$1 pantene rite aid coupon
-$2 pantene coupon
-$2 pantene coupon

Total OOP $21.65

Trip to a second Rite Aid was to get just one thing:

1 L'Oreal Advanced Revitalift anti-wrinkle concentrate for $14.99, reg. $16.59
-$3 L'oreal manufacture coupon
-$3 L'Oreal Rite Aid coupon

Total OOP $10.04

So yes, I spent a total of $31.69 OOP at the two Rite Aid Store. BUT, I will get the following in rebates:

$14.99 for L'Oreal Advaced Revitalift
$10.00 for buying 3 Crest ProHealth mouthwash
$1.74 for buying crest toothpaste
$1.99 for buying Pantene product
$3 for buying 2 Garnier Fructis products

So I will get a total of $31.72 for these two trips. So, I'm even steven. Well, actually ahead by 3 cents. Also, I will be getting a $10 Rite Aid gift card for spending $30 for pantene, crest and L'Oreal as well as a $20 gift code to ebags for a free bag. Yippy!

Finally, I went to Walmart and got:

5 South beach pizza's for $2 each
3 Coffee-mate creamers for $1.79 each
-$2 south beach coupon
-$2 south beach coupon
-$2 south beach coupon
-$2 south beach coupon
-$2 south beach coupon
-$1 coffeemate coupon
-$1 coffeemate coupon
-$1 coffeemate coupon
Total OOP $2.37

So that's all folks! What were your Sunday scenarios?

Brought to you FREE by Wal-Mart

2008-08-28T13:07:00.007-05:00

Well, thanks to the great blog of Money Saving Mom, I had a VERY good day at Wal-Mart for very little money. For the grand total of $51.59, I got the following:

3 containers of Parent's Choice Formula ($11.88 each)
6 3.5 bags of Purina's cat chow ($4.18 each)
3 3.5 bags of Purina's puppy chow ($4.18 each)
5 Johnson's Buddies soap ($00.97 each)
6 packs of Kotex pads ($1.00 each)
5 boxs of Clean and Clear blackhead remover ($5.44 each)
2 boxs of Huggies CleanTeam Wipes (soft pack-42 count) ($1.64 each)
5 boxes of Preparation H 10-ct. wipes ($2.96 each)
2 boxes of Visine (1/2 fl. oz.) ($3.62 each)
2 packs of 10-pack Schick disposable razors ($1.97 each)
and a stroller weather shield ($6.97)

Thus, these 40 products were actually worth a grand total of $148.33

I had in coupons:
6 $1.00 coupons for Kotex
9 $4 coupons of Purina cat food or dog food
5 $5 coupons for the clean and clear blackhead remover
1 $3 coupon when you buy two Huggies baby wipes
2 $3 coupons for Visine
5 $3 coupons for preparation H
2 $2 coupons for Schick razors
5 $1 coupons for Johnson & Johnson's Buddies

For a total of $100 in coupons.

So, if I hadn't bought the formula (which I wasn't planning to buy but it had 25% more free, i.e. 32.5 oz. for the price of 25 oz. which I hadn't seen before); and I hadn't bought the stroller rain cover (which I had been looking for but all the previous ones I had seen were $20+ which I think is just too expensive), I would have only paid $8.99 of which $7.26 was tax.

Thanks Money Saving Mom and thanks Wal-Mart!

I won the battle with CVS!

2008-08-28T07:34:00.004-05:00

So, I've been tallying up my August costs v. savings for CVS based upon my couponing, discounts/sales and the ECB's (extra care bucks) I've received from CVS to use for my shopping. This was my first month going all out, so let's see how I did and how it rates compared to those who are old pros at this:

For August, 2008:

Total true worth of products I bought: $394.97
Total discounts I received for items on sale: $100.05
Total amount of coupons I used: $123.45
Total amount of ECB's I received: $112.05
Total amount OOP: $59.42
Amount of ECB's I have left to use in Sept.: $5.00

As a side note, the total amount OOP (out of pocket) includes taxes ($8.27), bottle deposits ($7.80 of which I will get back as I return them) and one prescription for $3.46.

Thus, I really paid $39.89 for the actual products, of which there are 74 of them, including 13 cases of pepsi soda, shampoo, condition, toothbrushes, toothpaste, feminine products, candy, medicine and more.

So, I essentially paid $40 for $400 worth of stuff and still have $5 in ECB's to use next month. What a bargain!

Rite Aid is Paying Me to Shop There.

2008-08-27T09:37:00.002-05:00

Just a quick note to tell you what Rite Aid is paying me for shopping there in the month of August from the rebate: $49.14.

What did I spend OOP (out of pocket) for the month of August? $82.31

So, subtracting what I will get back, I spent out of pocket - $33.17

How much were the products I bought worth? $138.14

How much in coupons did I use? $55.83 (weird number b/c some coupons were B1G1 - i.e. buy one, get one free).

Not too shabby.

I'll post soon about my OOP expenses v. worth of products for the month of August at CVS.

I'm Back with a VENGEANCE!!!!!!! (and saving moola too!)

2008-08-26T06:46:00.005-05:00

As you all know, I've been in hiding since my February 1, 2008 post talking about changes and last things. And boy, was I right. Things have been crazy and happy and expensive and priceless and thrilling and scary and . . . Well, you get the drill.

I have the most amazing little boy in the whole wide world and he is now 6 months old - where did the time go? I was lucky enough to take three months off to spend with him - and boy did I need it! Talk about a learning process! I went back to work and am still getting used to the drill of bringing my handsome prince to "school", going to work, getting my cheeky monkey again and feeling like a rock star when he sees me for the first time, and getting things ready to start all over again.

We bought a house - I got MASSIVE nesting instincts when I had my baby shower - the place just felt way too crowded and I needed to move NOW - it's weird, I heard about the nesting instinct but never believed in it until it happened to me. Looked at the house two days before I gave birth and bought it four days after I gave birth - we would have bought it earlier, but I was in the hospital for four days b/c I had a c-section. It was the first place we looked at; and I LOVE it!

We bought a new car so baby would be safe and the old car (1999 with 150,000 miles on it) just wasn't going to pass inspection. And of course bought new furniture, etc. for the house.

So needless to say, we spent a lot of money and are in major saving mode right now. Which has led me to my newest obsession: couponing and getting stuff for free. And my two favorite places to do it are at CVS and Rite Aid. Essentially, by using the combinations of coupons and great deals from there, I get things for free or for at least VERY LOW MONEY. So I have a huge stock of toothpaste, toothbrushes, cleaning supplies, shampoo, conditioner, razors, feminine supplies, shaving cream, soda and medicine that I paid almost no money for; and in some cases, they have paid me to take.

To get an understanding on how to do it, I would recommend two great blogs: I heart CVS and I heart Rite Aid. Another place I use consistently is Hot Coupon World which also advises me of great deals at Target and my Price Chopper grocery store.

So, I'm not going to tell you how to do it, I'm just going to direct you there as I couldn't do as well as them at the explanation. What I will do, however, is post my weekly shopping scenarios to show how I did; and hopefully, it will help you. Also, this blog is going to become more of a "saving moola" blog as my baby boy and saving money are my two big things right now.

So here we go:

I'm somewhat new at this - I've been at it one month. But I love puzzles so I do the deals, especially at CVS, accordingly. I don't get a ton products, just what we as a family may need, but I thought my scenarios might help others.

CVS - I made several transactions to get the full use of my coupons - and specifically did them in this order (and ECB's are "extra care bucks" CVS prints out on the end of your receipt when you buy certain of their products that you can use on anything in the store - it's like real money!):

1. 4 12-packs of pepsi soda - 4/$12

5 sobe life waters - 5/$5

-5 coupons for free Sobe with a 12-pack pepsi purchase

-$2 off $10 CVS coupon

-two $5 ECB's from last week

Total OOP - nothing

Received $5 ECB's

2. 1 Garnier hair color for $5

2 Garnier conditioner with freeshampoo/conditioner travel pack

1 Garnier leave-in conditioner (Garnier was 3/$10)

- 4 $1.00 Garnier coupons

-$2 off $10 CVS coupon

-$5 from previous transaction's ECB's

Total OOP $4.65

Received $5 in ECB's

3. 2 ZipFizz energy drink mix at $5.99 each

-$2 CVS coupon

-$5 ECB from previous transaction

Total OOP - $4.98

Received $11.98 in ECB's

4. 2 OB 36 count tampons for $9

1 advil child for $5.79

2 colgate toothpaste B1G1 - $3.49

2 Colgate toothbrush B1G1 - $3.29

-$1 CVS toothbrush coupon

-$1 colgate toothpaste coupon

-$2 when spend $10 CVS coupon

-$1.50 ob coupon

-$11.98 ECB's from previous transaction

Total OOP nothing

Received $10.79 in ECB's

5. 1 CVS tampon for $4.99

1 playtex tampon for $4.99

-$1 playtex coupon

-$2 when spend $10 CVS coupon

-$5.79 in ECB's

Total OOP $1.37

Receive $5 ECB's

So I spent a total OOP of $11 and I still have $10 in ECB's to use next time.

I also went to Rite Aid and got the following:

2 glade oil refills - 2/$5.00

2 glade plug-ins - for $4.79 each

2 shout sprays - 2/$4

1 Pledge - $2.99

1 Pert plus - $2.99

1 EZ start tape - $1.50

1 revlon blemish concealer - $6.99

1 revlon pressed powder - $6.99

1 John Frieda Shampoo - 6.49

1 John Frieda condition - $3.24 (B1G50%)

-$0.75 Shout coupon

-$1.00 pledge coupon

-$4.79 glade plug in coupon (B1G1)

-$2.50 glade refill coupon (B1G1)

-$2 revlon coupon

-$3 john frieda coupon

-$4 glade coupon

Total OOP - $33.71 (before coupons it was $53.75)

I'll receive from the rite aid rebate:

$1 from Pledge

$3 from John Frieda

$2 from pert plus

$1.50 from duck brand tape

$2 from Glade plug-in refills

$2 from shout

$10 from revlon

Total - $21.50

So I paid only $12.21 for $53.75 worth of products.

Last Days . . .

2008-02-01T11:39:00.000-05:00

As I'm finishing my last day of work for three months (I will be starting maternity leave on Monday), it makes me realize I'm starting a lot of "last days" as I get ready to give birth to Mr. Bean and my first-born on Tuesday, February 5:

1. last days of no responsibilities other than to me and him;
2. last days of doing whatever I want without worrying about a little one;
3. last days of sleeping when I want;
4. last days of watching tv whenever I want;
5. last days of eating when I want;
6. last days of not being a mom;
7. last days of not caring if the house is kept up;
8. last days of not caring if there's enough food in the house;
9. last days of worrying only about my own bathroom habits;
10. last days of worrying only that I'm clean.

Any other last days I should be celebrating? Come on parents, help me out here!

Turning Mr. Bean to the Dark Side

2007-11-01T07:34:00.000-05:00

Well, after our many years together, I have finally turned Mr. Bean to the dark side. You see, he calls me a TV junkie (which I don't deny) and used to refuse to watch any TV with me. Thus, I would be in one room watching TV and he would be on the computer.

This year, however, I have started to turn him to my side. He now loves watching with me "Life", "Dirty, Sexy Money", "Aliens in America", "Ugly Betty" and my personal fave to have addicted him to "I Love New York 2".

And, to my shock (and happiness), Mr. Bean has now become a movie junkie. It used to take an act of Congress for him to watch a movie with me. Now he is a Netflix addict and watching movies ALL the time. I never thought I would see the day.

Now, if I could just get him interested in stamping, I would be on a roll.

Happy Birthday to Me!

2007-10-23T08:17:00.000-05:00

Well, it's that time of year again - the birthday. And this one is my 35th. Yes, I'm a 35 year old with bifocals; and I just found my first gray hair. YIKES! I remember when I was a kid and thought that I was going to be an old hag at 28 with the turn of the century. And now I'm another 7 years older.

I've asked for no presents from anyone. I don't need them and I already have the best present in the world. For the past 10 years, I have been asking, begging and pleading that God would, at the least, make me pregnant before I was 35. 35 seemed to me to be the big number - if I wasn't pregnant by then, it wouldn't happen. And after all of the IVF's, surgeries, and failures, I figured it wasn't going to happen.

Although close to the wire, I must hand it to him - he came through. Just four months shy of my big day - I got pregnant. So, no other present can even compare. I already have the best one in the world.

Yes, baby boy, it's my birthday and you are the best present EVER. I love you!

Let the kids have their dog for cripe's sake!

2007-10-17T13:18:00.001-05:00

I'm referring to the new story about Ellen giving up her dog to her hairdresser's kids - and then the cops take back the dog. To get the full story, go here. Now, what I want to know is, if the dog is happy, why can't the dog stay with them?

Do rules always have to be enforced? I know they have the rule that no families with kids under 14 can adopt a dog, but these kids are 9 and 11, not 2 or 3 where they could be really bothersome to the dog. It just doesn't seem right.

It reminds me of Mr. Bean's and my two girls. First there with one family they are told would be there family; then there with us and once again told we are their "forever family" and now they are with a third family. This poor puppy is going through the same sadness - and unnecessarily going to a third family IF they can find one.

Sure ticks me off.

I've Been Here for Years!

2007-10-09T08:33:00.000-05:00

Well, at least one year anyway. I was thinking of MC Hammer when deciding what to write because it's been almost a month since I blogged so it must seem like I disappeared. I must tell you, however, A LOT has happened.

We went to Disney and had a great time. Then Mr. Bean and I both came home sick as a dog from Disney and were out of commission for more than a week. It really hurts to cough when you are pregnant, I must say.

We then found out our little bundle of joy is a boy. I'm just happy he's healthy. I'm also getting huge - so huge that my OB was like "you gained HOW MUCH WEIGHT in a month?" So much for my lost 100 pounds.

We also have been trying to keep up with work, registering for the baby and deciding how to do the nursery - in Disney of course! We even bought some really nice artwork which will look great in the nursery. And some cute onesies that are gender neutral because we didn't know until we got back that the lil' guy was a lil' guy.

We're also going to birthing classes. Although fascinating, it scares the crap out of me. He's going out WHERE?!?!?

So, I will try to be a better blogger. Please don't give up on me yet!

Well, I'm off to see the Wizard,

2007-09-14T09:46:00.000-05:00

(Picture I took last year)

The wonderful Wizard of OZ! Well, actually, I'm off to see the Mouse at Disney, but there is a Wizard of Oz ride there at MGM I'm sure Mr. Bean and I will be riding. So have a great week, and I'll catch you on the flip side!

At this rate, you're going to think that all of my posts are going to the birds . . .

2007-09-13T09:30:00.000-05:00

but I just couldn't help myself. This is just too sweet. Not to mention that we needed a happy bird story since we all just had the sadness of losing Alex.

Plus, I just LOVE monkeys.

Most of us probably find pigeons annoying - they're dirty, all over the place and their poop - well yuk. Raise your hand if you have been pooped on!

Anywho, here is one pigeon that gives all pigeons their good name back. And as a lawyer, believe you me, I understand wanting your good name back.

This is a story about love - the love of a pigeon and a monkey. Poor little monkey was abandoned by its mommy and left to die. Thankfully, an animal hospital took the baby monkey into save it; but the monkey just was not interested in life. Until it met its soul mate - a pigeon. Now, baby monkey seems to be in love, the feeling appears to be mutual; and the baby monkey now has a joie de vivre again.

One thing I noticed was I couldn't find either of their names in any of the articles I saw. So I want to take a poll of names - send your comments in. My vote: Beauty (pigeon) and the Beast (baby monkey). No surprise that I picked a Disney name, is it?

Good Night Sweet Alex.

2007-09-11T13:25:00.000-05:00

Well, another great researcher has passed. And although all researchers are special in their own way, this researcher not only made waves in the human world, but in the avian world as well.

Goodbye Alex, the amazing African Grey Parrot.

And Alex was amazing. He could count to six, knew and said 50 words, and my favorite, expressed frustration when the scientific tests he was helping to conduct would bore him b/c they were so repetitive. He would even tell other parrots to essentially stop mumbling by advising them to "speak better". A bird after my own heart.

And he died too early at age 30 (these type of birds live to about 50 years old).

But it is obvious he was not only loved, but will be missed horribly. He is missed so much that they waited several days to tell of Alex's passing so the other researchers, and his friends, could mourn privately first.

Goodbye our feathered friend.

I really feel for Owen Wilson

2007-08-29T07:29:00.000-05:00

Everyone knows Owen Wilson as the funny man. He's in all of those hilarious comedies (if you like his type of comedies, which I do). I enjoyed him in everything from "Night at the Museum", "Cars" and "Shanghai Knights" to "Zoolander". I even enjoyed him in "You, Me and Dupree". Not so much in "Wedding Crashers". Yes, I know I'm one of the few who feels that way.

But now, things aren't so funny for him. And, with Mr. Bean and I having gone through what we've gone through in life, I feel like I understand a little how he feels. And I really feel for him. It was hard enough for Mr. Bean and I to get through things, but at least we were able to do it privately and on our own terms and didn't have to let people know if we didn't want to. Unfortunately, he is not so lucky. One of the downfalls of being a celebrity. And one of the many reasons why I would never want to be one.

It's weird - I feel absolutely no sympathy for Britney Spears, Lindsey Lohan, Paris or Nicole, but I really feel for Owen Wilson. It may be a bit hypocritical; and I don't know why I feel that way, but it's true.

Good luck Owen.

Big Happenin's!

2007-08-17T07:54:00.000-05:00

So, in case you haven't heard, go on over to the First Anniversary Spectacular on Saturndiary where Mr. Bean and I share the great news!

Also, in case you want to try the recipe for the yummy coconut cake I was manging on during the podcast here you go. And don't panic - it is easy peasy!

Coconut Cake

1(18 1/2oz) package white flavored cake mix

2 cups sugar

1 (16oz) container of sour cream

1 (12oz) package of frozen coconut, thaw

1 small container of whipped topping

Prepare cake mix according to package directions. Bake in 2 round pans (8"). When completely cool, split each layer into 2 layers, for a toal of 4 layers. Combine sugar, sour cream, and cocunut; and blend well. Reserve one cup sour cream mixture for frosting, and spread the remainder between the layers. Combine remaining sour cream mixture with the whipped topping. Spread on top and sides of cake. Taste best if you wrap and let chill for atleast a day before eating. (but who's got the patience for that!!!! :) )

One of my biggest fears.

2007-08-11T07:57:00.000-05:00

I hesitated writing about this for awhile. I feel so horribly for those who had to endure the fear and pain from what happened with the bridge collapse. And my thoughts go to those who are suffering as a result.

The reason I didn't write about it though, I must admit, was not for those who suffered. It was for myself. Because those events of that day brought up one of my biggest fears which I have been trying to conquer for years.

I fear and loathe driving over big and tall bridges.

Living where I do, and traveling for my work as much as I do, I have to drive over some VERY tall and VERY long bridges quite often. I hate it each and every time. And when traffic causes me to be stopped on them for awhile, I fight the strong urge to jump out of my car and run for the nearest end. I feel every sway and bounce. I'm afraid someone is going to hit me and cause me to go over the side because I don't think the walls are high enough. I make sure my window is open in case I do go in, so I have a chance at getting out. If I'm driving, I refuse to look over the sides. If Mr. Bean is driving, I won't let him look at the view, make him drive in the middle lane and yell at him if he is speeding. It is all encompassing, and I can't breathe until we are over it.

And, now, as a result of this horrific event and the long needed inspection and review of all national bridges showing that similar problems exist all over, I feel my fears are justified. So I'm really scared of the next time having to go over one of these bridges, knowing what I know about what happened. And God forbid if there is a traffic jam. Just writing about this is making my heart beat fast and my breath shallow.

I am truly saddened and sorry for those who suffered from this tragic event. I also wish though, that I never heard about this happening.

Working for the Man

2007-08-01T10:18:00.000-05:00

So I got depressed today. I was going over my 401k with our work's accountant. He was telling me how, in 30 years when I retire, Mr. Bean and I should be set nicely for retirement.

WHAAAAT! 30 more years? That's about how old I am now (plus 4). You mean I have to work another LIFETIME before I retire? So I heard nothing about the financial aspects or details or whatever the hell these accountants say, all I heard was I have to work 30 more years.

It's not that I'm lazy - I'm far from it. I've been working since I was 14, sometimes two jobs at once, and for the past 10 years, I've worked 70+ hours a week, including nights and weekends. But it just sounded so damn depressing that I have 30 more years of this.

Why can't we have a ten year break in our 40's? Seems like we would enjoy it more then instead of at 60-something.

I just don't understand those people who work until 70, 80, 90 or until the day they die. They supposedly love work THAT MUCH.

Well, not me. I'm ready to retire at the ripe ol' age of 35 in October.

What about you? Are you one of those "people" who love work THAT MUCH that you can't imagine not working?

I Went to My Town.

2007-07-30T13:19:00.000-05:00

Yep, this weekend I was in my town, aka BeanTown, i.e., Boston. I've always loved Boston and have wanted to live there forever, but this time, not so much.

It was in the 90's, stifling, it smelled and we got stuck in Old North Church for over an hour during a horrendous thunderstorm with rain and hail.

Sunday, we went to Fenway Park for the Police Concert. Go to this link to see us there. Look good don't we? Concert was good, except Mr. Bean says they messed up a lot. Also, they made changes to a bunch of songs which we didn't like. Seems to me that if fans are paying $100+ per ticket, they should play the songs the way we want to hear them. Some agree with us; and some don't as you can also see here.

I'm Done.

2007-07-25T09:52:00.000-05:00

Well, my book relationship with good ol' Harry is done. I finished it at 6:05 a.m. No, I didn't stay up all night reading it. I woke up at 4:45 a.m. and finished the book.

Don't worry, no spoilers here. But I will say that I really enjoyed it, was happy with the ending, and can't wait to see the movie. I will miss, however, reading the stories and anticipating each new book's arrival.

Now, I need to see the movie for Book 5.

I will make a prediction. I believe that J.K. Rowling will miss the series so much that she will go "Star Wars" on the book and do a "prequel" showing the lives of Harry's parents, Sirius, Snape and of course Tom Riddle. And I would be one of the first in line to buy those books.

But for now, I'll wait for Hogwart's to be built in Universal. And if anyone has any recommendation for books in a similar vein, I would greatly appreciate it.

Thanks Rowling, for a great ride.

Yes, I'm One of the 1.2 Million . . .

2007-07-23T12:11:00.000-05:00

who bought the latest Harry Potter book this weekend. I have the previous six (except for the first which was loaned to a now "former" friend who has not returned it) and have read them all. And I'm currently on page 350 of the 7th.

But to be honest, I wish I hadn't started reading it yet. I wanted to savor it, look at the cover and anticipate reading it when I felt the time was right. Yes, I'm one of those people. I like to keep birthday and christmas presents in their boxes for as long as I can before I use the item. I like to savor it. I like to keep the newness of it. It drives Mr. Bean crazy b/c he wants to use the new item asap. And it drives him even more crazy if it's something he gave me. He just doesn't get it that, for me, part of the fun of the new item is to keep it nice and new for awhile. For example, I got an awesome purse from my SIL Christmas 2005 that I just started using January 2007. I got a great WDW bag in October 2006 that I haven't used yet. The longer I wait to use an item, the more it shows I like it.

An even better example for this topic is the 6th Book of Harry Potter. I bought it the first day it was being sold in 2005. When did I read it? A couple of weeks ago on my Adirondack vacation - and yes I loved it.

So, here I am reading a book I really didn't want to read right now and wanted to savor having the new book first. And it frustrates me - don't get me wrong, I'm enjoying it immensely; but I really wanted to savor the anticipation of using it. But b/c of reviews and spoilers, etc., I'm too afraid NOT to read it b/c I don't want to find out what happens without reading it myself.

So thanks to those of you who are attempting to ruin the books for others. I'm now being forced to read a book I wanted to savor until at least 2009.

TGIF and other Musings

2007-07-20T12:04:00.001-05:00

Well, first full week back from vacation. Aren't they the worst? Not only do you have to do that week's work, you have to make up the previous week's lack of work. So this week was long, stressful and exhausting. I would say I now need another vacation; but considering how the last one went, I think I will pass.

And I know that next week is going to be even worse.

On a happier note, Mr. Bean and I are going to Boston next weekend to join Sting and the gang to listen to a little Police music. Thanks to Priceline, we have a beautiful four star hotel for not much, and it should be a nice time. I'm really looking forward to it. I just hope it doesn't rain as the concert is at Fenway Park.

This weekend, I plan on doing a big fat nothing except possibly working on my tan at the pool. And I may even be too lazy for that. And I have to get veal parm b/c I REALLY want some. YUM!

Well, that's it for this week. I hope something inspiring happens so I can blog about it.

Apprentice, Celebrity Style?

2007-07-17T07:27:00.000-05:00

Why won't Donald Trump just go away? I'm sick of his assertions that he had the "number one show", his messed up hair, his feud with Rosie and now I'm stuck hearing him on Sirius radio on commercials asserting he has the best program to teach you how to be rich. Yeah, have a daddy who is rich and leaves you a lot of money. Now pay me my $49.95.

And now, when I at least thought The Apprentice was gone, it's now been revived. And with celebrities? What "celebrities" would possibly want to waste their time to do this show? And who the heck is going to watch it? I, the self professed TV junkie, am bowing out and refuse to watch it. No thank you.

One show I am addicted to, however, is that new Scott Baio show. He is one messed up dude. And I feel like a voyeur learning WAY too much about his "relationship" with Erin Moran and other woman he has used and abused. And I felt something I never thought I would feel for him - I felt pity and sadness. What a sad guy. But he still looks pretty good. That's one show (of many) I refuse to miss!

Rumors of My Demise Have Been Highly Exaggerated!

2007-07-15T04:15:00.000-05:00

I know some of you are wondering "where the heck has Bean been?" and some of you could care less at all. For those of you who do, I apologize for not blogging much lately. I feel like I have lost my muse. Nothing is really ticking me off or inspiring me to feel like writing, you know? It's hard to keep up a blog when you can't think of things to write - I have writer's block. I have to write a lot for work which has been EXTREMELY busy; so it's hard to want to come home and do some more of what you did all day at work.

Then this past week was vacation. Normally, Mr. Bean and I have been highly successful and lucky with wonderful vacations. We always say we have a wonderful two weeks while the rest of the time sucks. Not this time. I guess we were due for a crappy vacation. We went to the Adirondacks and dealt with (1) a dead mouse in the toilet; (2) a burst water pipe so we didn't have water for 8 hours; (3) I got food poisoning; (4) it rained a lot; (5) Mr. Bean was a grump. So we came home early and did stuff around the house. A boring vacay and a waste of vacation days. Well, that's life.

So, dear readers (the 2 of you left), I will promise to get inspired and motivated to blog more. It's the least I can do!

I apologize in advance!

2007-06-22T07:58:00.000-05:00

Sorry to all but I got sucked into this by Eric Luper. We can all thank him later.

Here are the rules: Each player lists 8 facts/habits about themselves. The rules of the game are posted at the beginning before those facts/habits are listed. At the end of the post, the player then tags 8 people and posts their names, then goes to their blogs and leaves them a comment, letting them know that they have been tagged and asking them to read your blog.

So here are mine:

1. Over the years, I have been blond, brunette, a redhead and now I have almost black hair. If I could get away with it in my profession, I would LOVE burgundy or purple hair.

2. I was a french major in college and lived six months in France during my junior year for my spring semester, living in Toulon, France. During that time, I traveled all over France, Italy and Greece. Other than marrying Mr. Bean, it was the happiest time of my life; and I cried when I left.

3. All my life growing up, I wanted to be a teacher. My dad was an attorney and there was no way in heck I was going to be one. Well, I student taught and HATED IT! So I had to change all plans, and here I am an attorney. Dad is so proud.

4. I hate cucumbers, bananas and watermelon b/c of their taste and lemons, grapefruit, oranges, grapes, raisins and cherries b/c of their texture.

5. I graduated from college in three and a 1/2 years, and student taught before law school which confirmed my opinion that I was not cut out to be a teacher.

6. I have been west of the Mississippi only three times in my life - twice to Chicago (one trip included Wisconsin) and once to Phoenix. However, I have been to the countries of England, France, Monte Carlo, Switzerland, Italy, Greece, The Netherlands, Venezuala and to the Caribbean several times.

7. I am becoming like my grandmother where I can't sleep past 5 am but am asleep by 9 pm.

8. I hate water with a passion (I hate the taste); but I force myself to drink three (3) 20 oz. bottles of it a day - which I started on 8/1/2006 when I started my diet, which helped me lose 110 pounds.

Alright, now the suckers who I'm going to tag:

1. Niicelady at: http://niicelaady.livejournal.com/
2. Mrs. Pi at: http://www.mrspi.blogspot.com/
3. PizzaBabe at: http://www.pizzababe.com
4. Tigger at: http://homepage.mac.com/tigger_g/MyWebsite/index.html
5. AJ at: http://cuppatea.wordpress.com/
6. SBA at:http://spankingbeaarthur.wordpress.com/
7. Andy Melton at:http://www.andymelton.net/
8. Rebecca at: http://www.trannywreck.com/

Justice being served?

2007-06-12T12:57:00.000-05:00

I'm not going to get into the whole Paris debacle other than to make one big comparison. As the entire world knows (unless you have been living under a rock - or the middle east), Paris is in for 45 days, five already served, for (a) driving drunk; and (b) getting busted for driving on a suspended license not once but twice.

Let's consider a different case. A single mom of two teens, in admittedly poor judgment, bought beer and wine for her kids and their friends if they (a) spent the night; and (b) did not drive anywhere. They all did as she asked; and in fact, all kids had breathalyzer tests taken and none were even found intoxicated. Now I don't agree with the mom at all; but can understand her reasoning - if they don't do it here where I know they are safe, they will do it somewhere else and not be safe.

And how much time did the single mom get? Twenty-seven months - yep 2 years, and three months.

Someone drives a car while impaired which could kill someone but for the Grace of whomever - 45 days. Mom, although using bad judgment in how she did it, trying to stop drinking and driving - 820 days.

And it's not just ruining her life - it's ruining her kids - one of whom has already quit school and is working full-time to support her for when she gets out.

Good job government - once again doing a stellar job.

Ask Bean, Vol. II

2007-06-07T12:36:00.000-05:00

Sharon asks:

What is your take on the new Real World Reunion in Vegas? Do you think they have changed in the 5 years that have passed? Do you think Trishelle will be as naughty (nice way of saying slutty) as she was?? Will you watch?

Dear Sharon,

Well, I've watched three episodes so far; and although I love it, none of them have grown up except for Briann - OMG a mother of 2?!?!?!?!?!? The rest all act like children themselves. And Frank I think has actually regressed in age as he was more mature the last go around. I think for him, he feels he didn't make the most of his previous opportunity and was made fun of for it so he's making up for lost time now. Trishelle has been surprisingly subdued so far; but we'll see how long that lasts.

I'm enjoying it and look forward to watching more. If nothing else, it makes me feel better about myself!

Now to the rest of you, send questions to beansblog@gmail.com. I want more questions! As you can see, I can answer anything from TV to relocation opinions. I may not be right, but I'll sure as heck give you my opinion! Send the questions in - I'm waiting for you!

Ask Bean, Vol. I

2007-06-05T15:13:00.000-05:00

Andy Melton wrote:

As you know I'm working to move away from home. Where do you think I should try to go to? I've always thought about going to Virginia. But. I really just don't know where to start looking. I need a place where I can get to everything I need to by walking or public transportation. Any suggestions? Also. I'm really thinking of going back to school. I don't want to go to a typical college simply because there are so many things I want to learn. I just don't think it's practical to go to a 4 year school. I want to learn more web development skills, photography and I'd also like to do some cooking classes. Any suggestions as to a school that would serve me well?

Dear Andy,

Thanks for being my first question - and what a great question it is. Virginia is a lovely state and I have a great recommendation for you - a place that has colleges of both the two and four year variety and is big enough to have what you need but not so big that you would feel lost - ROANOKE.

I can recommend it wholeheartedly. It has a bus system for public transportation. It has a community college called Virginia Western which has areas of study of Communications Design; Computer & Electronics Technology; Computer Graphics & Internet Programming; Culinary Arts; and they do have Photography classes. And if you change your mind about a four year college, Roanoke College is a great school too.

The City itself is great too - wonderful malls, restaurants, a great downtown and plenty of places to find work and a place to live.

I hope this helps - good luck!

Well, DUH!

2007-05-31T15:53:00.000-05:00

Big news on the entertainment front - David Hyde Pierce of Frasier fame has had his "people" tell the world that he is, in fact, gay. Alrighty then - that's about as shocking as when Rosie let the world know. Thanks David, we already knew that.

On other entertainment fronts - is anyone watching "On the Lot"? I really am enjoying it (except for the awful host - what happened to the blond chick?); however, I thought it was interesting that all three who were booted last night were not originally from the good ol' US of A. Made me wonder whether they didn't have their friends and family calling in to vote b/c they aren't from here, is the reason they didn't have enough votes. I agree the two girls should have gone but Phil's video "Please Hold" I enjoyed. Also, I loved "Getta Rhoom" - that video was hysterical! So I'm glad the director was vindicated by being in the top three after he was slammed for being offensive by Carrie Fischer, Gary Marshall and the "Disturbia" guy.

Other shows I'm enjoying, or are going to enjoy are: Traveler, Big Brother, Real World Reunion: Las Vegas; Stargate SG-1; Stargate Atlantis; Doctor Who; Kyle XY, and more I'm sure. Anyone else watching these? And yes, I do plan on going to the pool too.

Ask Bean!

2007-05-29T09:30:00.000-05:00

I want to start a weekly "Ask Bean" post from questions from my loyal readers. It's so you can get the "Beany" take on any question - nothing is too sacred, embarassing, silly or even intelligent. It can be a personal question (except not "what is my name on my birth certificate?" :) ); advice question; or anything at all you want to ask.

Now, don't get me wrong - I don't think I'm this insanely intelligent person who has all of the answers to everything - that's Mr. Bean's realm at SATURNdiary. I mean afterall, he is Dutch, old and Brilliant. It's just if you want the Bean perspective on anything.

So ask away at beansblog@gmail.com. I truly hope to hear from you!

A Whale of a Vacation.

2007-05-22T07:20:00.000-05:00

Well, we all take family vacations. I enjoy Disney, Europe, the Caribbean - and actually my favorite place in the world is my annual jaunt to the Adirondacks to commune with nature and just relax.

It's my favorite thing to do and it's the same for a lot of other people as well.

And I guess whales like vacations too. Momma and Baby whale have decided they are sick of the ocean and wanted to visit of all places - Sacramento?

Granted, Mr. Bean has always wanted to go to Sacramento because he loves capitals of states and likes to visit the governmental buildings - but for most of us - BORING!

Why didn't they go to Hawaii? Or Santa Barbara? Heck, even Portland, Oregon would have been more interesting.

Maybe Momma Whale wanted to teach a history lesson to Baby Whale. That's something Mr. Bean would do. Reminds me of those summer vacations where my parents would take us to one fun place and one "educational" place so our brains don't totally melt during the summer break. Yuk, I hated the educational part. I bet Mr. Bean loved it.

So, Momma, good job on teaching Baby the intricacies of California government, say hello to Governor Schwarzenegger (but teach him Republicans are BAD); and I hope you make it back safely home.

I am me.

2007-05-20T18:25:00.000-05:00

Well, although I only got two comments on my last blog (thanks Tigger and Niicelady - love you!), it appears my last blog and my comments on Mr. Bean's last podcast at SATURNdiary have gotten people up in arms. Funnily enough, however, I don't get to hear it - no one leaves a comment, no one emails me at beansblog@gmail.com, nothing.

Instead, my poor husband, Mr. Bean has to take the wrath.

Two things on that. First, Mr. Bean one hundred percent disagrees with my position of not having my "real" name out there. If you listened to the podcast, you would know that. So why are you taking it out on him?

Second, it's my opinion only. I haven't outed anyone else's name except Mr. Bean's that one time, (and if I'm wrong on that, please let me know and I will apologize profusely); and I just shared my opinion on this issue. I have no problem if others disagree with me - you have every right to do so and I applaud you for that. But don't be mad if I shared mine.

And third and most important - know I feel very fortunate to be a part of the blogging and podcasting world, a part of the Freak Network and the fact that I want to be known as the Bean in no way reflects any adversity in either arena or that I'm ashamed of being a part of it. It is solely b/c (1) I love my name Bean; and (2) of work and the issues I discuss.

And that's all I'm going to say on the subject.

Why I'm called the Bean.

2007-05-17T07:44:00.000-05:00

There has been a lot of speculation, arguments, etc. about how people who use characters should, in a way, expect people to either not take them seriously, that they are not "real" in their blogging/podcasts or that they can be made fun of, mocked, whatever you want to call it. And it also appears to be a sport to "out" the person with their real name; and essentially being told that if they don't use their real name then, they must not be serious. I, for one, have been used as an example.

I don't fault these people for thinking that way; and I harbor no hard feelings and still love them. However, I think they misunderstand me. And I cite two specific reasons why.

First, I consider Bean my name. No, it's not my official, on my birth certificate name. It's even more important to me because it's a nickname my husband gave me when we first started dating more than 12 years ago. In fact, if he calls me anything other than Bean, it sounds weird to me; and I don't like it. Do other people call me this? No; and in fact, not many even know I have that name. It's Mr. Bean's name for me - and I love that he chose it for me and it holds a special place in my heart. So, by using that name here, it's an homage to him - AND IT'S A NAME I CONSIDER REAL TO ME.

Second, I use Bean and not my "official birth certificate" name because I talk about things here that I do not want getting out - especially because of the profession I am in; and because of the issues I discuss. I would never have been able to talk about the adoption if I had to use my real name because, although we didn't give out specific information, if our real names were used, things may have been able to get back to people we don't want it to - and in fact, it could hurt us. And professionally, although I say nothing bad about them (and I wouldn't b/c I love the people I work with), I'm not really in the profession that looks highly on doing things like this. And hence, not my "real" name.

So I don't think I should be looked down upon for it; and I make no excuses because I have nothing to make excuses for. If you choose to believe it's not the "real" me because of the name, honestly it's your loss and those who do know me in real life and who I trust to tell about this site know in fact it is the REAL me.

And for those who I've entrusted with my "real" name in other avenues, please don't "out" me on other sites. I trusted you with the information and feel that this was done without my permission. I have not done so myself and was surprised to see it done by others.

That being said, I sincerely hope you all will still enjoy my blatherings; and I will try to get back to less serious, more beanie-like things. Thanks!

OMG, I'm SOOOO Honored!

2007-05-14T09:13:00.000-05:00

Don't know where the heck I've been, but I missed a VERY important comment on a previous post - I have been added to the "Women in Podcasting" website! I can't believe that I've been added there - it means so much to me! Thank you, thank you, thank you for adding me to the list! it means a lot to me! Marina, you are the best! And no, I'm not a part of Me and the Bean - I'm a totally different legume!

And to everyone who hasn't checked it out - run, do not walk, over there and check it out - "Women in Podcasting". There's some great stuff over there, even if I'm dumbing down the list!

THANK YOU TANGO!!!!

2007-05-14T07:28:00.000-05:00

I just want to send out a big THANK YOU to Tango - because you dumped New York on the reunion after "I Love New York", I now get to watch "Train Wreck II", I mean "I Love New York 2".

I just can't stop watching it. I think I need counseling for this.

Finally, Pix of my New "Do"

2007-05-10T08:03:00.000-05:00

Courtesy of Mr. Bean.

So What do you think?

Is he right - too short

or do you like it?

Ode To Jefferson Dog.

2007-05-06T06:53:00.000-05:00

When we got you in 1997,

We were in puppy heaven.

You only cost us twenty-five,

And it was the best deal of our lives.

Now, it is 2007 and what a year,

You still think you are a puppy, but in reality you are ten.

J, you now have a big problem in your right ear,

so the deal of 1997 will now cost us two thousand.

All we hope is that your infection in your ear will get better,

And your pain will go away,

We don't care it if costs two thousand or more,

Just know that we love you; and you're worth it anyway!

Mr. Bean Hates My New Hair.

2007-05-06T06:32:00.000-05:00

Well, today's post is going to be personal and probably boring (as you may think all of my posts are, quite frankly). But I'm a little bummed today because I wanted to do something a little different because of all that's going on lately.

I'm REALLY into changing my hair, especially when I'm sad about something. I've been brunette, blond (yes, Bob, I know I owe you a picture!), blonder, red head and almost black hair. I've had highlights, low lights, really long, really short, curly (YUK!), etc. Now, because of my "profession", I can't get as crazy as I want to be, which would be with burgundy or purple highlights. So yesterday, I continued with the REALLY dark hair; however, I made it REALLY short in the back with kind of a "shelf" look in the back. It looks kind of like the picture above but a bit shorter. And yes, I can hear you, why aren't you putting your own picture Bean? I promise I will this week, if I can figure it out - I'm a bit slow that way.

And I get home, all happy with my haircut and the first words out of Mr. Bean's mouth? "I hate it." Now granted, I know Mr. Bean is not a fan of short hair, but it's not THAT short; and it looks sexy and professional and it is on me - so for that alone, he should like it! And what is it with guys and loving long hair? Talk about annoying!

So your thoughts?

I know, it's a SHOCKER!!!!!

2007-04-29T05:51:00.000-05:00

Well, you must be shocked - two posts in three days. How unlike the Bean. She only posts once in a Millenium, it seems. And only about depressing stuff.

Well, something so huge in the news has brought me out of my shell and feeling the need to blog up a storm.

Is it about the war in Iraq, Bean? NOPE.

Is it about famine in Africa that American Idol has so kindly brought to our attention? Sorry, it ain't.

Okay, then it MUST be about the Va. Tech shootings. Wrong again and I already blogged about that - weren't you paying attention?

So here is the amazing, breaking news that has brought me back to the blog world: (insert important typing newslike sounds here)

SUPERMAN'S DOWNFALL EXISTS

KRYPTONITE FOUND ON EARTH!!!!!!!!!!

I know, I know - it may not seem as important to some - but to those of us who are comic books and superhero GEEKS, like me, THIS . . . IS . . . HUGE.

Because if kryptonite exists, whose to say that superheroes can't exist either?

Yes, there are our everyday, everyman superheroes - but those aren't who I'm talking about. I'm talking about heroes with superpowers - is there a Superman? Wonder Woman? Flash Gordon? Captain America?

I say there are. And now, because of what was found in Serbia, I'm one step closer to finding out who they are.

And, in this day and age, and what has been going on lately in my life, I need to think that.

So thanks to the scientist who located something for me to help with my belief and brighten my day.

I just wish it had been green.

Alec, what were you thinking?

2007-04-27T15:05:00.000-05:00

It broke my heart to hear Baldwin screaming at his daughter. Yes, the situation is frustrating. Yes, I totally get that you miss your daughter, especially in light of what is going on with us. But I DO NOT UNDERSTAND why you would take your frustration out on an 11 year old girl who is already stuck in between two feuding parents and already must feel every single pain that is going on between you and your ex.

That is exactly what Mr. Bean and I are trying to avoid with our two girls. Yes, we are fighting for them (and losing profusely), but they will never know the awfulness that is going on except for the fact that we want them and love them. Never a bad word will be said to them about anyone else involved. It's not their fault - they are just stuck in a horrible situation.

Just like your daughter Mr. Baldwin. And how dare you make her feel even worse about the situation than she already does. It's your role in life to ease her unhappiness, ease any pain she has, as best as you can. Not add to the issue.

I hope you apologized to her. And not to make the media happy, or the courts happy. You need to apologize to her because she deserves it, and you were wrong.

I'm not Ready to Back Down, I'm not Ready to Make Nice!

2007-04-22T06:23:00.000-05:00

Well, as I'm sure most of you have heard, and if not, go to SATURNdiary for the details, Social Services did their second evaluation which basically consisted of a couple of hours of crap with the girls and no discussions with any of the foster families who actually live with them now or the families who are willing to adopt, aka, Mr. Bean and I, and have decided it's in the best interest of the kids to stay together and their behaviors are just normal kids behaviors. Funny, considering the therapeutic foster mom who lives with our two girls now and has for several months and who has THIRTY YEARS EXPERIENCE says it's absolutely NOT normal and the psych who has worked with them for MONTHS and not two hours like this second evaluation also determined its NOT normal and that they need to be separated for their own well being.

So, in this case, it's not in the best interest of the children - it's in the best interest of their funding.

So, although I'm a basketcase, I'm still fighting this - even if it's just for my own sanity. Mr. Bean believes we should stop for the girls' sake, but I can't do that right now. I feel like I've lost my own - and I'm lost as well. This is the only way I can go on. But don't worry, I won't do anything that will hurt them - if it comes to that - I would obviously stop.

There's a hearing tomorrow - I don't expect much to come of it, but one can only hope. So once again, I need good thoughts, prayers, karma, vibes or whatever you do.

thanks and wish us luck.

Senseless Violence.

2007-04-17T08:48:00.000-05:00

I grew up in a small town that I always found as a kid and teenager, boring as hell. I couldn't wait to get out because there was "nothing to do"; "no fun"; "no future" and "too small".

As I grew older and moved away, from two hours away to 12 hours away, I came to miss this place of peace and safety. I always dreamed of moving back because I thought of it as a wonderful place to live and have a family. It was a place that I would not have to worry about myself or those I loved. A place where you could keep your doors unlocked and still sleep peacefully at night. I love this place; and if it wasn't for the nature of Mr. Bean's and my profession, would be a place I would move back to in a heartbeat.

This place's peace and tranquility was shattered yesterday because of the hate of one person. I lived in Roanoke, Va. only approximately 30-40 minutes east of Va. Tech.

And Blacksburg was even smaller - a cute, quiet and lovely college town. Another place to raise your family and not worry about the dangers of the outside world until April 16, 2007.

Why did this have to happen? Why would someone, who intended to kill themselves, feel the need to take the lives of those who did nothing to him other than be in the wrong place at the wrong time? I am not an advocate of suicide. In fact, I am fully opposed to it and find those who do it to be weak and selfish who do not care for those who love them who will be tragically effected by the suicide. But, in this instance, if suicide was this man's endgame anyway, why couldn't he have just taken himself out without the needless death of all of the innocent victims?

Blacksburg and Roanoke have just matured as a result of yesterday. And it makes me so very sad to see their innocence gone.

My thoughts are to all of those effected by this senseless tragedy.

This Goes Out to the Ones I Love . . .

2007-04-11T06:54:00.000-05:00

Yes, to my wonderful, sweet cyberfriends. And you know who you are - those I have talked to (great chat the other night PB, Bob and Tig, even though I was literally half asleep!), written to, received comments from, etc. It has really lifted me up during a very tough time.

On another note, some thoughts on things OTHER than "THE THING". Anyone watch "Medium" last week? Did you see who was the priest murdered allegedly by the crazy girl? OMG, it was Chacotay (sp?) from Voyager! I was so excited to see him, yet so sad to see how old and Wolfman Jack-like he had become with his white beard and hair. I was half expecting him to start singing "Double Dutch Bus"! (god, I loved that song!)

Also, Tig and I have talked about this at length - I love New York. She picked the wimpy whiner and then he proposed! I about fell off my chair laughing at her shock! Now I can't wait for Flavor of Love Charm School.

Speaking of VH1 shows, I can't wait for "Celebrity Fit Club" - there are a lot of good people on it this time - Screech (who I heard went nuts on the show - BIG TIME!), Maureen McCormack from Brady Bunch, Kimberly Locke from American Idol, Tiffany, and more. I enjoyed watching it last time b/c I monitered my weight loss and compared it to them - and I did much better!

Speaking of which, I have lost 103 pounds and have only 5 more to go! I'm getting new clothes, looking much better and am much happier in that area. I just wish I hadn't had to lose that much weight in the first place. But oh well, it's gone, I'm going to sell my old clothes and move on with my life in that area and not make food my stress reliever anymore. In fact, I now find that, when I'm stressed, I don't want to eat which is the exact opposite of what I used to be. Yeah me!

So that's all for now folks and know I love ya!

This is the WORST Easter EVER.

2007-04-08T05:22:00.000-05:00

Well, after all that happened, all Mr. Bean and I had to look forward to was having the girls this weekend. Well, Friday, about an hour and a half before we were to pick up the girls, we were told the "powers-that-be" changed their mind and we could only have the girls on Easter, not Friday to Sunday night as previously planned. The reasoning was by an administrator who knows nothing about kids and decided it would put the girls' hopes up. This is stupid for several reasons. First, the girls know nothing about the situation yet. Second, they will now think we don't want them for the weekend. Third, what's the difference b/w us seeing them Sunday or the whole weekend -if they were worried about that, we shouldn't see them at all. Fourth, the girls are never going to trust anyone at this point with the last minutes changes. We fought it and lost.

But we were looking forward to Easter. We made easter baskets, set up an easter egg hunt, were going to color eggs and go out to Easter brunch in their brand new dresses I let them pick out last week.

Then, I get a call last night from their foster mom at about 7 p.m. They both have a viral infection and are pretty sick. So they can't come. So we were downsized from a whole weekend to one call to wish them a Happy Easter.

This Easter SUCKS.

I'm Really Not a Blog-Fader, and I Promise I'm No Blog Hater . . . .

2007-03-27T07:17:00.000-05:00

Well, seems like it takes me forever to write a blog these days. And I'm really trying not to make this a parenting blog; however, as y'all well know, that's my life these days. Last weekend was great, we had a fun time to say the least, and they were sweethearts and didn't want to leave us. Then Sunday was panic day, as I know you heard on SATURNcast with Mr. Bean. And we moved furniture out of the guest room b/c it's becoming the girls' room. I also went shopping at Toys R Us - had fun getting games and toys for them. "Big Girl Beds" are coming this week; and the girls will be spending the weekend with us. Then for Spring Break, we get them the whole week!

It is hard, with work and being used to working weekends, it's hard to figure out the balance. But they are so worth it; and we've wanted it for such a long time. But to go from 12 years together doing our own thing to now being responsible for two minors is definitely overwhelming.

So thanks to all for the kind thoughts and words and know I won't continually blog about parent things - this is just my life for now so it seems to be all I know!

IT WORKED, IT WORKED!

2007-03-21T05:10:00.000-05:00

Thanks to the kind and positive thoughts, karma, energy, vibes, prayers and good wishes, Mr. Bean and I have been approved to start the adoption process of these two beautiful girls. We met them for the first time yesterday. They are absolutely gorgeous, full of life and will make a wonderful fit to our family. We are all so excited - and scared to death! We have to do a ton of things in such a short amount of time - when people usually have 9 months to prepare! We start having them weekends this weekend, and they should be in our home permanently in May or June. Once they are here, then they have to live here three months and then the court process begins. I can't believe it's finally happening. We bought beds for them last night and are getting car seats and other stuff with a friend who has similarly aged kids on Thursday. Mr. Bean's birthday is this weekend and he says it's the best birthday present he could ever have - I agree with him.

Thank you everyone - this is the happiest day in my life - only after the day Mr. Bean and I got married!

I keep taking and taking . . .

2007-03-18T07:29:00.000-05:00

And all of you keep giving and giving; but Mr. Bean and I need to ask for more positive thoughts, vibes, karma and prayers for this Tuesday, March 20th, in the afternoon. You guys did such a good job last time for us that I'm asking you again to help us out.

We're going to meet the girls for the first time to see if it would be a fit for them to be ours. I'm very nervous and excited at the same time. I can't wait to see them. So please send your energy towards us on Tuesday that this will be a match made in heaven.

Thank you for all you have done in the past and what you do for us in the future. You are truly a blessing!

Bean at the Bayou!

2007-03-14T07:35:00.000-05:00

Well, I'm still swamped (get it?) at work, but to tantalize you, Mr. Bean posted the audio of Part I of my swamp tour with Cajun Pride - listen to Bean and Ms. Bobby Brown feed alligators and hear the history of the swamp! Go to SATURNcast or SATURNdiary for the audio - and try to wear earphones as you can then hear it in 3D, surround sound - you'll think you're right there in the middle of the swamp tour with us! Enjoy and let me know what you think!

Did Ya Miss Me?????

2007-03-12T17:51:00.000-05:00

So, I'm back! No flashing of the boobies, but PizzaBabe will be happy to know I had men in my room overnight - a guy other than Mr. Bean and the first time in 13 years - and yes, Mr. Bean knew all about it!!!! No story now because I'm SWAMPED with work - but a trip report will be in the works. In the interim, I taped about 6-7 hours of stuff for Mr. Bean on his I-River which he will post on SATURNcast and SATURNdiary very soon.

For a quick review, the top ten things I learned about New Orleans:

10. I have a great travel mate in Ms. Bobby Brown.
9. Beer does NOT smell good at 6 a.m.
8. New Orleans is not condusive to diets.
7. 50 and 60 year olds can party like it's 1965.
6. Alligators love marshmellows.
5. Beignets are a lil' piece of heaven in fried fat balls.
4. There is NOTHING you can't make with crawfish: crawfish lasagna, broiled crawfish, fried
crawfish, crawfish alfredo, crawfish omelets, crawfish egg benedicts, crawfish poboy,
crawfish ettouffe . . .
3. Everyone thinks they are a budding musician - the next Louis Armstrong.
2. Baby Alligators are cute as a button.
1. I miss Mr. Bean like crazy when I'm away from him.

LIVE from N'Awlins . . .

2007-03-10T09:34:00.000-05:00

Just wanted to make y'all (getting back in my southern routes) jealous and write a blog live from the French Quarter. Obviously, I'll write a long and drawn out report (sorry Tigger and AJ!), but for now, I've toured plantations, fed wild alligators, eaten too much, toured Bourbon street and much, much more! (except - no flashing of the boobies - sorry PizzaBabe!)

See y'all later Sweeties!

I'm Off to New Orleans!

2007-03-05T16:45:00.000-05:00

Well, I'm ditching Mr. Bean and meeting my best friend from college in the good ol' town of N'Awlins! I have never been before and am really excited about it. We're doing a spa day, a plantation/swamp tour and of course, eatin', drinkin' and listenin' to jazz music! Not to mention we are staying at the most haunted hotel in all of New Orleans!

I'm even bringing Mr. Bean's I-River so I can record some fun. And of course, you'll get another edition of the trip report - New Orleans style!

Has anyone else been? Any recommendations on things to do, places to eat and drink? All suggestions are welcome and appreciated.

Now, if I could only get through the next two days . . . .

Thank You.

2007-03-01T08:47:00.000-05:00

Thank you. That's all I can really say. Mr. Bean and I really have been overwhelmed by the outpouring of love, wishes, good thoughts, prayers, etc. from all of you this past week for our interview re the adoption. And let me tell you, ALL of you were with us in spirit yesterday afternoon for Mr. Bean and I during the interview - we felt you all and it gave us strength and hope.

So the skinny for now is that they seemed to like us. The meeting that was expected to be an hour at most lasted an hour and a half. I must tell you though that they are interviewing at least one and possibly two more families. But they really did seem to like us. And they gave us a picture to keep of the girls which I hope they wouldn't do if they weren't intending to let us be a family. And gosh, they are absolutely adorable - and one even looks like my niece. Someone who saw the picture and knew nothing of our situation; but knew our niece even told me what a nice picture of our niece it was.

So, I am asking to impose on you for a little longer - to please send more good thoughts, prayers, karma or whatever positive energy you can our way to make it through this process and hopefully become a family with them. I am trying not to get hopeful; but it is so very hard, especially now that I have seen them.

Thank you Spanking Bea Arthur!!!!!

2007-02-24T15:49:00.000-05:00

Did you guys see my new art? I love it! A big Thank you to Matthew from SBA who was sweet enough to make me the art - and it really is me! You're the best Matthew!

Please Keep Us in Your Thoughts . . .

2007-02-22T12:35:00.000-05:00

As you know, Mr. Bean and I have been trying for adoption - well, we have an interview next week for two little girls. Please think of us on Wednesday, February 28, in the morning that the interview goes well and we can be on our way to becoming the parents we have always wanted to be.

All good thoughts, prayers or whatever you do would be much appreciated!
Thanks!

Don't Stand So Close To Me.

2007-02-20T10:42:00.000-05:00

OMG, OMG, OMG!!!!!!!!

I can't believe it. Mr. Bean and I wanted this but didn't think it would happen. But it did. I got us tickets to see The Police at Fenway Park! We have seen Sting in concert before, but to see The Police is a dream of ours we didn't think we would ever see realized. And now we are on Sunday, July 29, 2007.

I can't wait!

Now, I want to see Genesis and Peter Gabriel - they just need to come back and start the concert tour again.

Who would you like to see in concert that is no longer touring?

A Free Man (and Woman) in Paris, Unfettered and Alive . . .

2007-02-17T11:26:00.000-05:00

So, only two months later, you have my six part series on Mr. Bean and my trip to Paris over Thanksgiving weekend, 2006. I didn't think it would take me so long to write; but it did. Also, putting all of the pictures in the blog really was a pain in the neck. Speaking of pictures, although there are none in this particular post, you will see a ton in the upcoming 5 posts on the trip. Those pictures were all taken by myself, except for those taken of me by Mr. Bean; and of course, the "couple" pictures. Also, some of the pictures of Mr. Bean show him actually podcasting on his I-River, such as at the Louvre, Versailles and the Eiffel Tower. You can hear those podcasts at SATURNcast or Saturn Diary. I hope you enjoy it!

Pretrip

So, Mr. Bean and I had planned for a year to go to California for a week and a half over Thanksgiving. He had been about 20 years ago; and I had been never. We were going to start in L.A., work our way through Santa Barbara, Hearst Castle and Madonna Inn, Carmel and end up in San Francisco. I asked a ton of questions of Fodorites on the U.S. board, made ALL of my hotel reservations, some dinner reservations everything. And then the unthinkable hit. In October, my promised addition of another week of vacation at work to my two weeks fell through; and I was told I would get it in 2007. WHAT?!?!?!?!? And I had already used by two weeks for a week in the Adirondacks and a week at WDW. What were we going to do?
And as our wedding anniversary is in November, we always go away for it instead of buying each other unneeded presents. And I, the consummate planner, have the trip completely planned out by September. Now, it’s the end of October, what am I going to do? But Mr. Bean had a great idea – why don’t we go to Paris? We last went in October 2002 and it was for a whirlwind 2 day adventure. So, let’s spend a relaxing 4 days this time – I know, it sounds crazy but it works for us. Last time, we were in Europe for 8 days for an event for Mr. Bean, we spent 2 days in Rome, 3 days in Geneva (where he spoke at the United Nations – talk about cool!); and 2 days in Paris. So 4 days in Paris was a long time to us.

Question was, where in the world would we get plane tix cheap enough from upstate NY to Paris without breaking the budget? And the answer was: No where. The cheapest I could find was about $1000 pp which I just could not do. So I then decided to look at places out of NYC – and I found Air France was having a GREAT special of only $400 pp from JFK to Paris, nonstop. I loved the price and the one flight was great for me as I hate flying with a passion – it scares the heck out of me – so the less planes, the better. Now the only thing was to convince Mr. Bean that driving three hours to the airport over a busy time of year was not a big deal. It took awhile to convince him. He first had me check the cost of flights from Albany to JFK were – more than the flight from JFK to Paris – how sad is that? Then he wanted to take the train to Penn Station, then a taxi or bus from there to JFK – I asked on the Fodor's U.S. board and everyone confirmed my belief that it was too convoluted and took too much time. Then he found out about a bus that goes from Albany to JFK – it took six hours – if we drove it was only about 3 hours. Finally, I convinced him driving was the way to go; but boy, he was not happy about it.

Then, I had to find a hotel. After reading reviews on Fodors and Trip Adviser and my success with Best Westerns, I found the Best Western au Trocadero for only 83 Euros a night. It sounded really good in the reviews and I loved the location, but I admit I was a bit nervous as the price seemed too good to be true – and Mr. Bean was picky. I was enamored with the reviews which said some of the rooms had a view of the Eiffel Tower – for which I made a request. So I kept my fingers and toes crossed that we would get such a room.
So before we left, I had spent a total of $890 on airfare and $415 American on hotel for four nights – not too shabby, I thought – especially as everything seemed so last minute to me which I don’t like.

I then did the normally anal retentive thing I do and I planned our itinerary – I had graphs, charts, maps, explicit directions, recommendations for Fodorites on restaurants for which I made reservations, and exact metro directions for everything. I then had a notebook filled with all of that information, plus my tour guide maps. It always blows Mr. Bean away with the amount of detail I go into; but he always likes the fact that I do it. An important note though – even though I make those specific itineraries, I don’t feel obligated to follow it to the letter. If we want to spend longer in some places, that’s fine – I just would rather be over prepared than under. Mr. Bean probably would disagree with this, but if he saw my itinerary for this trip, and compare it to what we actually did, I think he would then agree.

I admit I did feel a little bit un-American going to Paris on Thanksgiving. And when we told people of our plans, you would have thought we were intending to kill a bald Eagle or something. “How could you not celebrate Thanksgiving?”; “Do they celebrate Thanksgiving?”; “How will you get turkey?” I could go on and on – but you know what, we would do it again in a heartbeat!

Tuesday, November 21, 2006.

So, the first day, I actually had to go to work so I didn’t “officially” have to take the day off. Why, do you ask? Because my vacation days were all done; and I was taking off Wednesday as my “birthday” day, a month late, which we are allowed to do. As a result, I actually had to work for 6 hours before I was off to get away to Paris. Talk about an excruciatingly long, boring, mundane six hours where I was going stir crazy and all I could think of was getting to Paris. I was miserable.

Finally, at noon, Mr. Bean picked me up for our 3 hour drive to JFK. Although it was a beautiful day out, Mr. Bean complained the whole drive down on how he couldn’t believe we were driving like this, it was going to be miserable driving in NYC, how EVERYONE he talked to said we should have taken the train to Penn and then the bus or whatever to JFK, blah, blah, blah. I finally tuned out and thought of Paris. And guess what? He was wrong – yes it was a bit busy, but not bad at all. We got to the JFK area; and Mr. Bean started worrying about getting a parking spot in long term and how in the world would we get to the terminal from there? I had already researched that issue, of course, but I was just letting him vent away. And surprise, surprise, we found a great parking spot only about 10 rows away from the tram area and went to catch the tram to get to our terminal. Mr. Bean grudgingly admitted it was easy. And we were the first Terminal stop.

Once we got into the Terminal, it was about 4:15 p.m.; and I was shocked. The place was EMPTY. And when I mean EMPTY, I mean EMPTY. I think I saw maybe 30 people and most were employees. I’m not kidding you, I think it took 30 minutes TOPS to get through Air France’s lines, get rid of our luggage, have the super kind Air France agent change our seats so we had an emergency row with only two seat in it and through security. It takes longer than that to get through security at our home airport and I always thought that was fast. I have a feeling though that, if we had left the Wednesday before Thanksgiving instead of Tuesday, it would have been a totally different story.

So we were at our gate about 3 hours earlier than necessary. We didn’t mind though. We had dinner, checked out the stores, I took my “don’t freak out on the plane” medicine, I had my “don’t freak out on the plane” glass of rum and coke and then we were off. We actually left about 45 minutes later than expected, but it wasn’t too bad.

We loved our seats. We were in the front row right after first class and it was just Mr. Bean and I. We each had our own TV’s. The food was actually pretty good which always surprises me on a plane. The only thing was that, although the airplane was great, the service was not so hot. I asked for water midway through and you would have thought I was asking for government secrets. We hardly even saw any flight attendants at all. All in all though, the flight was good and I even slept a little bit and was able to forget where I was and what I was flying over.

A Free Man (and Woman) in Paris, Unfettered and Alive . . .

2007-02-17T10:35:00.000-05:00

Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Although we left JFK a little late, we arrived in Paris on time. In thinking of all of the different ways to get to our hotel from the airport, I decided the easiest would be by shuttle. We got through customs very easily – although Mr. Bean was disappointed they didn’t stamp his passport – that drives him crazy when they don’t do that.

We then went to look for our shuttle and our guy was there with a sign. We picked Bee Shuttle. He showed us where the ATM was, which was easy for us to use (but the poor guy in front of us couldn’t get any cash), we waited for another couple and we were off. Our first site of Paris was the huge Stade (stadium). We then saw Sacre Couer. Then we saw the Eiffel Tower, aah, we’re home. We got dropped off first.

As I said, we were staying at the Best Western Trocadero - 3 Avenue Raymond-Poincare, Paris, FR-75116. The location was amazing – we were literally across the street from the Trocadero museums and the Eiffel Tower was RIGHT THERE. The metro stop was across the street, maybe 50 steps so easy access to everything. The neighborhood looked really nice and there were many cafes with full meals, breakfast, lunch and dinner. We went inside and checked in at about 10 a.m. Of course our room was not ready so we stored our luggage. The lobby, although small, was in marble and very nice. There was a breakfast nook and breakfast was, I believe 13 E pp. We never did that as there were wonderful bakeries just a short walk away. I asked about the room situation, i.e. the view of the Eiffel Tower. Unfortunately, they were booked that night; but could switch us in the morning which I happily agreed to while Mr. Bean grumbled that he didn't want to move rooms.

The tough thing about the first day in Europe after a long overnight is what to do. You don’t want to go to sleep so you want to do something that would keep you interested. You also don’t want to do something that, because you are so tired, you wouldn’t really remember. Well, we were meeting the Gay Expat a friend of Mr. Bean near the Louvre so we decided to go to the Louvre. I had made reservations at Le Souffle for lunch that day and was really excited to go there, but Mr. Bean was not hungry at that point, was tired and really wanted to get to the Louvre to check it out. Another reason to visit Paris again (and believe me, there were a lot of those on the trip!)

So we took the metro but first got our metro pass – the Carte L’Orange – what a great thing. It was easy to use BUT we were always worried about losing it. And we almost got busted and fined for no picture, but we’ll chat about that later. We bought our Carte l’Orange and went to the 'Carousel du Louvre' stop and got off. I know this sounds crazy, but the metro was SOOO busy and I absolutely loved it that way – I loved watching people going where they needed to, busy with life, it just fascinates me.

We first took some pictures outside, like the one on top (in which Mr. Bean is podcasting on his I-River); and immediately inside the pyramid - Mr. Bean to the left and me to the right.

I then went to find where to buy the Museum Pass while Mr. Bean went to find a phone to call his friend. We had to find a phone because, although Cingular told me my phone was all hooked up to make calls in France, once we were there, it didn’t work. I was sooo annoyed by this – we tried everything to no avail. So we had to use a payphone. It took us forever to make that call but we finally did it. We were going to meet the Gay Expat at the Louvre café – I forget the name of it but it has the outdoor section right under the overhang of the Louvre on the inside courtyard, in about 3 hours. Gay Expat, what's the name?

I finally found where to buy the museum passes. Mr. Bean then tried to hook up his recording equipment because, as you know, Mr. Bean has turned into a MASSIVE computer junkie which I never would have guessed when I first married him eight years ago and started a podcast this past August. As a result, he bought some traveling equipment so he could record portions of the trip. Unfortunately, the batteries already died so what was my first souvenir purchase in Paris? Batteries from the music store in the Louvre – how sad is that?

We had been in the Louvre before, so we just hit the highlights which I won’t go through here as we all know them – Venus de Milo, Winged Victory, Mona Lisa, Napolean’s Apartments. We wanted to do so much more; but honestly, we were just too exhausted to do so. We watched some restoration work on some of the greek sculptures which I thought was fascinating and watched a painter doing a replica of

one of the paintings there. Really, I find that more interesting than looking at the art work. We both felt sad that we were just too tired to do more.

We decided we needed some fresh air so we went outside. We were going to go to the L’Orangerie because I LOVE Monet. But it was FREEZING out and it seemed like we kept walking and walking with no success. I later found out from the Gay Expat that we had just missed walking far enough. Reason 2 to go back to Paris. But I must admit I was really disappointed to have missed it this time. We went back to the courtyard and ordered a chocolate chaud and pain au chocolat for me and a café au lait and sandwich for Mr. Bean. And we just ate it right there with the birds with the Louvre as background. We really enjoyed that food wonderfully.

After we finished, we went to the Café to meet The Gay Expat – now when I say friend, and considered him a friend although we had not met him officially yet and had no idea what he looked like. The Gay Expat is an American who is a lucky son of a gun whose partner got a great job in Paris so they moved there last year. They actually live near the Louvre. I can’t even imagine being able to live like that – one can dream.

Speaking of dreams – he was one – an absolute sweetheart. After our initial hellos, his first question was if we liked chocolate – well of course! So he took us to a little slice of chocolate heaven – Angelina’s on 226 rue de Rivoli, 75001 Paris. The Gay Expat said he goes quite often. This was obvious, because when we walked in, there was a huge line. The maitre de automatically recognized our friend, took us out of the long line and gave us the last available table. Needless to say, I was afraid for my life with the nasty glares we got from people. So we were seated and immediately looked at the huge menu. Well, Mr. Bean did – I was too busy looking at the beautiful décor – it’s all gilt and mirrors like a museum. The Gay Expat asked us if we trusted him for the drink – which we said sure – so he ordered for all of us the Chocolat Africains, which is most closely related to hot chocolate, but ten times better and richer. It’s a thick, creamy, intense pitcher of chocolate which is so rich it is served with a whole parfait glass of rich whipped cream to counteract the richness, as well as a glass of water – which you don’t have to ask for. De-lish. Along with that, I got a yummy dessert but unfortunately can’t remember the name of it. For the three drinks and desserts it was 31 E. The place was amazing, but because Mr. Bean and I were so tired, we didn’t take pictures of either the place or the desserts/drinks; and I didn’t buy any hot chocolate or other items they sell. Once again, I was SOOOO mad at myself for failing to do that – I think I forgot because I was so darned tired. Reason #3 to go back to Paris – return to Angelina’s for more chocolat chaud, take pix and buy some things!

I took a picture of Mr. Bean and the Gay Expat; and we said goodbye to our new friend. He gave us some parting words of wisdom – to make sure we get our pix taken for the carte l’orange or we could be fined – and fined big. We tiredly (not because of him, but because of our lack of sleep) said yes and then returned to our hotel. During that trip back, we saw no place for pix – this problem would soon haunt us later.

Upon arriving at our hotel, we learned we were going to be in Room #2 on the ground floor. I was unhappy with this because I don’t like ground floor rooms, but it was the only one they had. Well, this misconception was wrong as the room was great and had a HUGE bathroom. We believe it was a handicapped room because there was no tub and they had railings and a special chair. The shower just had the floor as the bottom with a drain in the middle. I didn’t like it as everything got wet and I was afraid to use the hairdryer as a result. The room itself was two twin beds. We always ask for twin beds in Europe as we have a King size at home so hate the small beds the doubles and queens usually are. We loved the arrangement here because the twin beds were literally side by side. While we loved it, those who are just friends or parents/child may not like it as much as there is NO space in between and no way to move it. We thought the beds were very comfortable and had no problems sleeping on them. The room was immaculate and we had a very nice courtyard view which Mr. Bean loved and of which I took pictures which are here. Mr. Bean loved the room so much he did not want to move again – but I begged and conjoled because I REALLY wanted a room with a view of the Tour Eiffel. Mr. Bean agreed.

So as we got to the room at about 5 pm, we took showers – which felt sooo good after 48 hours of no showers. We then decided to get some food for the room. About 2-3 blocks away was a lovely bakery where we got 4 HUGE baguette sandwiches – why do Parisian sandwiches taste ten times better than any American sandwiches – pain au chocolates; and our 4 big bottles of our fave soda – Orangina. It cost about 20 E for everything. I really wish they had Orangina easily accessible in the US – I could live on that drink alone! We went back to the room, ate our meal (well only ½ of it) , watched a little French television – love those French game shows! – and made it until 7:30 p.m when we fell fast asleep.

A Free Man (and Woman) in Paris, Unfettered and Alive . . .

2007-02-17T09:08:00.000-05:00

Thursday, November 23, 2006

Happy Thanksgiving! Although we went to bed so early, we slept until 8 am – and felt great! We were lucky and correctly avoided any jet lag. While Mr. Bean was getting ready, I ate my left over sandwich with some Orangina - YUM. We then packed up our stuff to leave in the lobby office (locked but with Mr. Bean grumbling all of the time) and went on our way to see Notre Dame.

When trying to figure out metro stops for this day, I for the life of me couldn't figure out why any route I chose would not have me go from Trocadero to the Cite stop, where the tour book I had started the tour. Instead, it brought me to a stop which was not on the Ile which I didn’t like. I was DETERMINED to find a way to do it and it looked easy on the Metro map. Take line 6, direction Nation, get off at montparnasse-bienvenue; and then Take line 4, direction Porte de Clignancourt, get off at Cite.

Well, let’s just say there’s a reason the metro website does not recommend this way to get to Notre Dame. OH MY GOSH, it was a LONG walk between Line 6 and Line 4 – so long there were many, many moving walkways. The moving walkways though are something we have never seen before. Yes, we’ve been on moving walkways, such as those at airports, etc. But good gosh, these are the fastest ones I’ve ever seen in my life – in fact, they are so fast that you go in three speeds, you walk, then another faster level and then as fast as Flash – it was pretty crazy but we loved it. I think we were going 9-10 km an hour. I have to admit, I was a little nervous with how we were going to get off – it literally slides you off like we were in Risky Business – dun, dun, dun, dun, dun, dun, dun “Take those old records off the shelf”, um, anyways, I laughed the whole way – you would have thought I was on a Disney ride or something I was giggling so much. So after walking up, down, flying across walkways, around corners, etc. for at least 15 minutes we then got busted. Yep, the metro police were there checking metro tickets. And yep, we still hadn’t gotten our pictures yet because we hadn’t found a photo thing yet. And yep, we did get busted on it by someone who, although VERY cute and nice in his uniform, spoke no English. Although I speak French pretty well, I sometimes have trouble hearing it. But I think it worked for us in this case because we got to use the dumb American ploy. One thing that drove me crazy was the officer asked me when we bought the tix and for the life of me, I couldn’t remember the word for yesterday (hier). I was getting so mad at myself as that is one of the first words you learn in French I in high school for crying out loud. Finally, I gave up and used the date instead. My sadness in French worked well and he marked our tickets, giving us 24 hours to get photos. Phew, no fines. So Gay Expat was right; and we screwed up. Mr. Bean was annoyed with me because he kept saying we needed to get photos; but I wasn’t so worried about it. Oops! What’s even funnier, and what he won’t even know until he reads this report, is that if we had gone the route the metro website recommended, we never would have met up with the police in the first place. But I was bound and determined to find a way to the Cite metro stop.

So after 20 minutes of walking, we got on the metro and got off at the Cite metro Stop. Wala! A photo machine! We were so happy – but we couldn’t figure how to get it work. Instead of a passport like photo, I got a stupid photo of me on the body of a girl in a bikini. It was taking forever to try to figure out and we just got frustrated and gave up. Plus we needed more change as we used it all up for the lovely picture of me on the beaches of Hawaii.

After the debacle with the photo machine, we got to the top and it started to sprinkle; but I had my handy dandy umbrella. Mr. Bean then decided he was hungry. I wasn’t because of the sandwich and was raring to go – guess who won? So we stopped at a café across the street from the Palais de Justice. Mr. Bean had an omelet, I had a croissant (most of which I gave to Mr. Bean as I was still full) and two café au laits. The sum was about 30 E which I thought was highway robbery but whatever. What was fun during breakfast though was watching everyone going to work. I know it’s silly, but we were remembering it was Thanksgiving in the US so everything closes down for the most part. But obviously not in Paris and they were all off to their lives and jobs. Also, I was still lamenting the fact that I couldn’t remember the word for yesterday and a kind (and cute) gentleman at the table next to us reminded me it was “hier”. Thank goodness because I would have literally gone crazy the whole day trying to remember it.

After breakfast, we were then off to Notre Dame. As a side note, I wanted to add here that, before the trip, I warned Mr. Bean that I wanted our Christmas card this year to be a picture of us in France so I would be asking A LOT of people to take our picture as a couple. Mr. Bean hates when I do that on the trip – but then he is always glad when he looks at the picture at home. And he knew on this trip, when I was determined about something, there was no getting me to back down – and this issue was it. And let me tell you, everyone raved about our Christmas card this year. So, I’ll tell you all of the pix we took as a couple, and I’ll let you guess at the end which one

we picked for the card.

Once we got to Notre Dame, I saw a father taking a picture of his wife with five kids. I asked if he wanted me to take a picture of them all together and if he could then take one of Mr. Bean and I. I learned they were from New Jersey, but currently living in Rome for the husband’s work – I was so jealous! We traded pix (COUPLE PICTURE #1) and “Happy Thanksgiving’s”; and then Mr. Bean and I were off to go inside. We had been there before but Mr. Bean wanted to do a podcast from inside and I had a new camera so I wanted new pix. As I was taking pix though, I lost Mr. Bean for about 30 minutes. This continues to be a pattern with us as I take forever to get the “perfect” picture which drives him nuts because he wants the time together. I know he’s right, but I swear it’s a sickness in me!

I finally found him and he wanted to go into the museum part. Of course our museum passes don’t cover that so it was an extra 5E I think to go in – first question – what happened to the crown of thorns? Didn’t it used to be in there? It wasn’t that day which really confused me. Mr. Bean was then bad and got behind the pulpit in the one room and of course I took a couple of photos. Then Mr. Bean lit a candle for his grandmother which he always does whenever we visit a church. We have photos of each time he does this.

We then waited in line for the towers. The museum pass covers this entrance. I was excited and nervous at the same time. You see, last time we went up in 2002, by the time we got to the top, I looked and felt like I was going to die. Mr. Bean was kind enough to take a photo of me miserable. Granted, I loved the view and was happy I did it; but boy was I out of breath and exhausted from the 400+ steps. This time though, as of that time, I had lost 60 pounds (I’m up to 90 pounds lost now); so I thought I would do much better.

And I was right! Even though it was tiring, I was not exhausted, not out of breath, and really happy and proud with myself. So at the top, I had Mr. Bean take a picture of me in the exact spot as last time but this time with a big grin and a thumbs up from me. We also had a picture of the two of us taken with the lovely view. COUPLE PICTURE #2.

There is actually two additional levels to look at and on one level, you can see the home of the Hunchback of Notre Dame. I have always loved that story, and especially with the Disney movie adding to the fun, I enjoyed seeing that area immensely. The picture on the left is the door to the Hunchback's home; and I am with the famous bell.

At the end though, we had to wait in line for about 20 minutes before they would let us descend. I still don’t know what took so long. And although it was beautiful, it was starting to get chilly and windy. So we were up on top about an hour.

After we descended, Mr. Bean was hungry again – I don’t know what it is about French food – you are always hungry. Before though, we went into the Notre Dame Crypt which is also included in the museum pass. I believe they found the crypt when they were attempting to build an underground parking lot. I thought it was enlightening and really interesting to see the old streets and buildings, but Mr. Bean got bored quickly and hunger was taking over.

We were going to eat at Le Vieux Bistro - 14 rue du Cloîture Notre Dame, 4e, based upon all of the recommendations from Fodors and Frommers; but it was packed except for one small table by the door and I just wasn’t up to eating in that spot. So another reason to return to Paris. Instead, we ate two doors down on the left if you are facing Vieux Bistro at a place where I don’t remember the name. But it was really good. I had a ½ carafe of red wine, croque monsieur platter and Mr. Bean had orangina and steak frite platter – it came to about 50 E. Thankfully, we had that money with us as their credit card machine was down.

We then made our way over to Sainte Chapelle but it was closed until 2 p.m. So we went across the street to an avocat (lawyer) store where they sold black robes for the attorneys. This is where I first realized that French attorneys, no matter their age, are required to wear black robes with the white frilly piece at the neck. This excited Mr. Bean and I as we are both attorneys ourselves. I wish we had something like that to wear, but no, just boring suits for us. So we went into the store and boy were we met with a cold stare. It was a very small store; and the woman could have burnt a hole into my brain. I explained to her, in French, why we were in there; but she could have cared less. She was the only one though who was not friendly to us on our trip.

So with our tail between our legs, we went two doors down to another café directly across the street from the line into Sainte Chapelle and had wine for me and café au lait for Mr. Bean and waited for them to open. It was very relaxing for only 8 E.

We then got into line when we noticed how slow it was. Because the Palais de Justice (court house) is also there, they have to check everyone with a fine tooth comb to make sure no one was carrying anything dangerous. We finally got to the front right before going through the detector when of course we were the ones stopped. Finally, after about 10 more minutes, we got through. We went into Sainte Chapelle which has A LOT of stained glass windows, as you can see from the pictures. There are two levels, the "paupers" level for their service which of course is the bottom floor, and then the second floor, with all of the glass windows, was for the rich people. Nice to see segregation, even in a church setting. This was another place our museum passes were used.

We first went to Sainte Chapelle. And I probably will be flamed for this, but I wasn’t as excited about it as I was for Notre Dame. Although pretty, it didn’t have that wow factor for me and Mr. Bean agreed.

What was more exciting for us; and what I didn’t realize when deciding to go to Sainte Chapelle, was that we would also be able to see the Palais de Justice, a French courthouse in action. It was really neat seeing all of the attorneys, wearing their robes, going to do their work. We saw some courtrooms and a law library. It was magnificent. I wanted to ask an attorney if I could take my picture with him but Mr. Bean forbid me (he was mortified); and I can’t say I blame him. I wouldn’t want someone to ask me when I was in the middle of work either. I did one sneak picture, however, which I've posted below!

Although I had a lot more on my list of things to do for the day, Mr. Bean decided he was done. He wanted to go back to the hotel, see his room, and rest up for dinner which was going to be our special Thanksgiving dinner.

First though, we went to the flower market at the top of the Cite metro stop to look around. I bet it’s beautiful in the spring and summer. It was okay now and had some Christmas things; but I was surprised that a lot of it looked very American and not very French. I didn’t get anything. We then went back to the Cite Metro stop and saw an old French woman trying to use the photo machine – she was having huge problems too. I felt better knowing it wasn’t because of me being American – it was because the machine was a pain! After she was done, we finally got our pictures figured out and taken. Mine had me with a big cheesy grin on my face; and Mr. Bean’s looks like a criminal with a perma-scowl – that’s the Bean Family!

So we went back and got our room – room #42. I was excited to get this room because it got rave reviews on TripAdviser and boy were they right! We had two windows, both of which you could open wide; and looking to your right, an amazing view of the Tour Eiffel! I was so happy! And even better, Mr. Bean admitted I was right in wanting to move. I have to admit I never thought I would have (or afford) a hotel room with such a nice view. We were so silly about it. I would stand in the far window from the Tour Eiffel, Mr. Bean would stick his head out the near window, and I would take a picture of him with the view; and vice versa. We did this both during the day, and at night with it lit. We also liked the bathroom better because we had a real shower/tub. Still immaculate and very nice.

After resting, we got ready, dressing nice for Thanksgiving dinner – French style. We were going to Le Train Bleu, based upon recommendations from Fodors. I even put on heels for the dinner! This ended up being a mistake later on as you will see shortly.

We took the metro to Gare de Lyon where Le Train Bleu is located. After we walked down the steps to the metro, because of the combination of my heels and the wet concrete from the rain, I took a header. Well, really I took a knee-er, as my left foot went straight out in front and I went down hard on my right knee (and boy did I get a souvenir bruise for the trip!). Mr. Bean was so shocked he didn’t help and a kind stranger did. Talk about embarrassing! Mr. Bean was actually recording at that time; so I personally think he didn’t want to help because he thought it would make good radio! So then I was limping my way to the metro.

We then got on the line; and boy was it packed – rush hour, everyone going home from work. And there was this guy packed close to us who was crazy and kept bumping into me – I kept giggling because I couldn’t believe it. Then, this guy had this HUGE sneeze right on me! This other woman made eye contact with me and rolled her eyes – one of the many reasons I love the metro!

So we got off at our stop and went to the restaurant. One of the many interesting things about Le Train Bleu is that it’s in the train station and it’s a really fancy restaurant. Once you go up the stairs to go there, before you go in, turn around and look at the view. It’s amazing how huge the station is and is really pretty. I wish we had train stations like that in the United States. We went in and boy, it’s like another world. It’s like a museum with the paintings and gilt on the walls and ceiling – it’s just gorgeous. We had made a reservation; and I would recommend you doing so as well.

We were seated at a nice table and could tell a big group was going to be next to us. As the tables were close, I was a bit concerned about them being too loud. I couldn’t have been more wrong and they were lovely. They were from Boston, Rhode Island and Belgium and they all met in Paris to celebrate one of their birthdays. I took a picture of their group; and when Mr. Bean went to the restroom, they were kind enough to keep me entertained.

We had a wonderful meal. I had red wine, Chicken liver pastries with spicy morel mushroom sauce and roquette salad for an appetizer and Roast leg of lamb, Fourme d’Ambert blue-cheese potato gratin for an entrée. Now if you like lamb, you must get this entrée as they make it a big production and carve it at your table. I took a picture of them carving it which you can see here. And the blue–cheese potato gratin was to die for! Mr. Bean kept stealing mine! Mr. Bean had a dozen escargot for an appetizer; and Grilled filet of beef in béarnaise sauce with early green beans and tender potatos for an entrée. He also enjoyed his meal immensely but liked my potatoes better. The one thing they didn’t have a great selection of, in my opinion, were desserts. We decided to forgo getting dessert and get some later. The meal came to 118E which I thought it was well worth.

After we ate, we took a tour of the facilities and saw the bar area. It was not only beautiful but comfortable as well with leather couches and chairs and they even had their own mascot – a cute calico cat! I of course had to take another picture.

After dinner, it was about 8 p.m. and we didn’t want to go straight back to the room. We first thought we would go to the Bastille, but I honestly wasn’t sure how to get there from the metro stop so we decided to go to the Arc de Triomphe and Champs Elysees instead. We got to the Arc and just made it before it closed. We used our museum passes to get in and started walking up the steps. Now this was crazy for three reasons: (1) I was wearing heels; (2) my knee still hurt from my earlier embarrassing stumble; and (3) we were both stuffed from our dinner. So, I didn’t do this climb in the happy go lucky way I did that morning’s Notre Dame Tower climb. This time, I was huffing and complaining. We got to the top 200 + steps later; but it was tough, I admit. Note to self: no climbing on a full stomach and with heels. We looked at the beautiful view – it was both of our first time being on the top of the Arc at night – we’ve only done it during the day before. Once again, I was being a fanatic with the camera, taking a million pix to get the “perfect” one which was driving Mr. Bean crazy who was trying to be romantic. Oops. Afterward, we walked back down. We were going to walk on the Champs Elysee, but my feet were tired so we went back to the room again.

Once we were back in our room, we then took pictures of each other sticking our heads out of the window and the Tour Eiffel in the background. It worked out perfectly because there were two windows. The one taking the picture was in the window the farthest from the Tour Eiffel; and the other would stick their head out of the closest window. Never in the U.S. would we be able to stick out of the windows like that in a hotel! Afterwards, we then watched some French television – a reality show which was a cross between American Idol and Big Brother – I loved it! And we went fast asleep at about 10 p.m. Another lovely day and a lovely Thanksgiving in Paris.

A Free Man (and Woman) in Paris, Unfettered and Alive . . .

2007-02-17T07:58:00.000-05:00

Friday, November 24, 2006

Well, today was Versailles day - or Chateau de Versailles, if you want to get all fancy about it. I had been before, back in February, 1993. It was chilly and cold that day and guess what? It was chilly and cold this day as well – plus a nice helping of wet. I was a bit disappointed because I really wanted to see the gardens this time as I didn’t the last, but as you will see shortly, it didn’t matter and we had a blast. Mr. Bean had never been to Versailles so he was really looking forward to it.

We took the train out to Versailles. I stupidly forgot my magic umbrella, i.e. the umbrella that I always take with me when I don’t want it to rain; so of course it rained. To get to the train, we got off of Line 6 to Bir-Hakeim (Grenelle) and walked to Champ de Mars-Tour Eiffel. Once there, we got very confused. Because we had the Carte l’Orange, we used it to just get to the train; but I knew that was not right because I knew the Carte L’Orange could not be used to Versailles. So we went back and forth, retraced our steps; and finally went to the ticket lady right before entering the RER C area who sold us our tix for 5.5 E each, round trip. I was very nervous about losing the tix. She asked if we wanted the pass for Versailles as well – it was 16E for RER tix and Versailles, but we said no, thinking the Museum Pass was enough – which later we found to probably not be – or we were too dumb to figure it out.

The train took about 30 minutes. We rode on the top level and really enjoyed the scenery. We were concerned with getting off at the right stop; but we shouldn’t have been because it was the last one. Also, I was wondering how they knew we had tix, because no one came to check them; however, as we left the train and the station, we had to use our tickets to get out of the station. Made sense to me.

Once we left the station, we took a right, and then our first left; and there was Versailles directly in front of us – beautiful gates. Unfortunately, there was a ton of construction going on so it wasn’t as beautiful in the front as I was hoping it would be.

We went into the Information area, which was on the left when you are looking at the Chateau. We thought our museum passes would cover everything; but it seemed like they hardly covered anything. We paid about 14 E more pp for a guided tour of secret apartments; and then paid something else as well. The escorted tour was at 12:30 p.m., so we had about 2 hours to see the rest.

We then went inside (which was good as it started to rain) and got in line to get headsets with the tour on it (6E each). We first got in one line, then were told we had to go in the paying line first, get a ticket and then go in the second line to actually get the head set. It was very confusing, and they were not very helpful.

Finally, we were able to start the tour. First, we went into the Chapel. This area was absolutely beautiful; and we got there just in time for an organist to play. It was beautiful. This was another spot where I was driving Mr. Bean crazy as I was trying to get the perfect picture. We then moved on through the tour and got to my favorite room of the house: The Opera House. It was amazing – the acoustics were wonderful; and it was just gorgeous. I could have sat in there forever. For some reason, you are not allowed to take pix in there, even without flash, which I just didn’t understand. So I was a horrible person and snuck (sneaked?) a couple of no flash pictures anyway. Sorry (well, not too much). You can see one of my "illegal" pictures to the right.

We then continued the tour through the Hall of Mirrors. I took a lovely picture of Mr. Bean with the mirrors in the background. He then took a picture of me. Now, this leads to a sidenote. I’m the photographer, not Mr. Bean. I do think, however, he had the capacity of understanding that if I want my picture with something, it means I want the picture to show me and then the item I’m with. Not Mr. Bean. And this continued to be a theme seen throughout this trip. If you look at the pix in the previous days' posts, you'll see exactly what I mean. First, at the Louvre, I took a lovely picture of Mr. Bean on the balcony when you first enter the Pyramid part of the Louvre at the top so you can see both the Pyramid and the Museum. I stood in the exact same spot and I could have been at the local mall for all you would know. Look above and compare and contrast the pix yourself. Then, I took Mr. Bean’s picture in front of the Palais de Justice which shows the whole building. I stood in the same spot and all you can see are the stairs – I could have been doing a Rocky impersonation and you would assume I was in Philly and not Paris. Once again, compare and contrast above. The Arc de Triomphe? It looks like I’m with a concrete block. That theme continued here at Versailles – a picture of me in the Hall of Mirrors which you see above right? I might as well have been in my own living room because all you could see are other people. And yes, I continued to complain to Mr. Bean about it; but it never changed. Then I asked a stranger to take a picture of Mr. Bean and I and as you can see to the left, you have no clue where we are - I'll tell you right now that this picture did NOT make the finals for the Christmas card. The Hall of Mirrors was nice, but I hope they finish it soon as I want to see it again in its full glory.

Anywho, we then went into the royal bedchamber where we learned Marie Antoinette had her baby and that all babies were born there. In fact, I learned that all royal babies had to be born in front of the entire Court to make sure no mistakes or exchanges were made and it was the true royal baby. Could you imagine birthing a baby in front of such a crowd? No thank you!

So it was then time for our tour. Talk about a VERY unusual man giving it. He was the ultimate French man, he was in his 50’s, had an obvious disdain of the non-french, had the perfect Parisian outfit – Mr. Bean and I loved him. I think my biggest regret was that I didn't get a picture of him; but to be honest with you, I was a little scared of him. You'll understand as you continue reading. And the things he pointed out on the tour were very bizarre – in such a funny way that we were very entertained. And everything ended with “do you understand what I mean?” Now, I will give you an example of an area he discussed that was so bizarre and he wouldn’t let up on it and even with kids on the tour. The bathing habits of the Court back in that time. He kept going over and over how the men shaved their entire body and took two baths – one with soap and then changed tubs to rinse off in another; but that women did not shave at all and only took one bath for everything, and had a special bathing outfit to wear during the bath. And he would emphasize it by saying “Men shaved, women didn’t shave. Men two baths, women one – do you understand what I mean?” And he said it so often, Mr. Bean and I were trying to not burst out laughing. We even got to see the royal toilets of the time which our french guide thought was a HUGE deal.

Also, this French guide was offended that Versailles has only retained about 10 percent of what was in Versailles “back in the day”. What’s interesting though, no one stole the items, the French sold them. So the reason they are not in Versailles now is because the French wanted money and sold them to private entities. And then this man was VERY offended that these same ingrates would not give the items back.

We also went to the Opera House again, but this time we got to sit on the upper level and got an even better view. Here's another illegal picture to the right. We learned that they still hold operas there. I don’t want to tell you this part because I don’t want you to take my tickets; but if you go on-line you can get on a waiting list for tickets to see something there. Also, dignitaries have dinners there – a royal family from Belgium had an event there the week previously. And we also learned that the stage could be expanded by going over the lower seats – I guess this was a huge deal back then.

During this time in the Opera house, we also had question and answer session. And boy, if he did not like your question or thought it was stupid – he had no problem telling you so. We were cracking up over the way he answered people’s questions. And as this was the time the movie “Marie Antoinette” was out so of course someone had to ask about that. I’m not kidding you, the tour guide looked around to make sure no one else from Versailles was there and when he saw no other employees, he told us it was a disgrace; and a horribly inaccurate movie. He was so offended you would have thought the movie was about this mother. And that ended the tour.

There was one complaint I had about Versailles. Because of the “Marie Antoinette” movie, it seemed like most of the souvenirs were geared towards that and very flowery and foofy, which I am not. So I bought no Versailles souvenirs except two umbrellas, which were very nice; and only 9E each.

We got the umbrellas to go out into the garden. Mr. Bean didn’t want to go far; however, because of the rain. But then we got lucky because even though it was not summer, they were still renting golf carts! Yes, they were 28 E per hour; but they were worth every euro; and we had such a blast on them it was the best part of the day! That's us in the cart in the picture to the right. The golf carts also came with an audio tour guide; so when we drove past different spots, the audio would start to tell us about the area. We got to see so much more than we would have otherwise, and it was a blast to drive around the gardens – how many people can say they have driven on the Versailles gardens? I would recommend this part to anyone; and up to four people can ride in it. We rode around the lakes, like the one to the left; and sped past people, bikes, police officers on horses and even sheep and dogs!

We went down to Marie Antoinettes Petit Trianon. We quickly looked inside and took that picture of me on the left (Mr. Bean actually got the whole thing!). We then went outside to see her gardens. I actually liked this home better than the huge Chateau. I got COUPLE PICTURE # 3 in front of the Temple of Love. After quickly taking that picture, we looked inside and it was very pretty.

We then bee-bopped it around the rest of the gardens, flew by the Grand Trianon as we didn’t have time to stop because of our hour limit; so I only got to take a quick picture of the outside as we flew by, which is the picture on the left. We then saw more police officers on horses.

Finally, we took a couple last pictures with the wonderful golf cart.; and made it back about 10 minutes over time. Thankfully, they didn’t charge us; but I have a feeling that in the summer, we would have been.

After the joy ride, I then wanted to walk back a bit to get a "couple" picture in front of Versailles, on the garden side. Mr. Bean didn’t want to because he was tired and ready to go – we had been there about 5-6 hours by that time with no lunch. I had something in my arsenal, however. You see, when I saw Versailles back in February, 1993, I was with the guy I was dating at the time; and we had a "couple" picture in front of Versailles. So I said to Mr. Bean, "Do you want my only picture as a couple in front of Versailles to be a picture with someone who is not you?" So needless to say, I got my picture, one with our backs to the Chateau (PICTURE #4) and then one with each of us with our backs to the gardens. We also took a picture in honor of of our baby dog Jefferson Kennedy which is to the right and our cat McKinley Roosevelt to the left.

So then we were ready to go. It was a lovely day, but we had had enough. And we were starving. So we decided that, on the walk back to the station, we would stop for lunch. Well, this was a lovely idea except for the fact that it was 3 p.m. and everything had just closed for that time between lunch and dinner. We finally found a sandwich place and grabbed some to bring on the train. Don’t misunderstand me, it was very good – and I had diet Orangina for the first time which I loved – but I was really looking forward to a sit down meal. Oh well. And I was also disappointed because I had been in Paris for three days and still hadn’t really shopped yet. I only had one more day in which to do it.

So we got back to the train station and took the train home. Then on the metro back to our hotel, we saw the nice American family from Italy who we met at Notre Dame on Thanksgiving – we gave them some directions to the Eiffel Tower; and then we went back to the room and rested before dinner.

Now, we were supposed to go to Au Petit Marguery for dinner based upon recommendations from Fodors; however, we were just too tired to do it; so we ate at an outside café called Le Malakoff right outside the hotel.

Although it was cold, we were still able to sit outside because they had heaters everywhere. We had a nice night, eating while looking at the Eiffel Tower. We each got the prix fix meal. I had escargots for an appetizer and of course soaked up the butter with some bread; duck with raspberry sauce for my entrée with some fried potatoes and crème brulee for dessert. And of course a ½ carafe of red wine. Mr. Bean had a “country” plate with foie gras, cheese and bread; beef tartare for the entrée (whch had to have been about 2 pounds of meat); and a hot fudge sundae for dessert. With bottled water, it was about 60 E. Very relaxing and enjoyable – a nice night for dinner. Afterwards, we walked across the street to get some nice nighttime photos of the Eiffel tower. We then went back to the room and to bed.

A Free Man (and Woman) in Paris, Unfettered and Alive . . .

2007-02-17T06:59:00.000-05:00

Saturday, November 25, 2006

So this was our last full day in Paris; and I still had not done any shopping yet. All I had bought so far were two umbrellas from Versailles. What was wrong with me??????

So today was to change all of that. First, why Mr. Bean was still sleeping, I was intending to go to a market nearby to the Hotel - President Wilson Market, Avenue du Pdt Wilson between rue Debrousse and Place d’Iena, Wednesday, 7 a.m. to 2.30 p.m., Saturday 7 a.m. to 3 p.m. Well, I walked down Avenue du President Wilson for what seemed like forever with no success. So shopping attempt failed.

Frustrated, I grabbed some breakfast of pain au chocolat and cafe au lait and returned to the room. We were going to go to the Catacombs that morning and then to Montmartre. Mr. Bean, however, was very sweet and decided we didn’t need to go to the Catacombs so we could have more time in Montmartre to shop as I really wanted to get to it.

So, we took the metro over the Montmartre and started our walk. I used Frommers’ book Most Memorable Walks of Paris to get around; and I found it very helpful. First, though, we wanted to go to the Montmartre Cemetary for several reasons. First, Mr. Bean LOVES cemetaries. He likes reading the history, seeing the graves, it’s just a thing for him. For me, I wanted to see Degas’ grave as he is my favorite artist – I love his work. Third, we heard a lot of cats live there. We love cats so we wanted to see them.

On the way there, of course, we had to go through the Red Light District and see Moulin Rouge, Le Chat Noir, and all of the fun shops. We got COUPLE PICTURE NO. 6 in front of the Moulin Rouge.

The Cemetary itself is very interesting as a good portion of it is under a bridge. They simply built several roads above the cemetary instead of around it. Also, the cemetary was on a mulitude of levels. It was very peaceful and quiet. The cats were all very cute and looked well fed – I don’t know where they got the food from but they looked fine. We saw a wide variety of grave markers that were not only interesting ; but in the case of many fascinating in the way they were built.

The one problem I had though was locating Degas’ grave. We looked forever and simply could not find it. Well, I really shouldn’t say that because it is a funny story. We did see one grave that said "Famille de Gas". Mr. Bean and I, in our childish way, got a good laugh out of it. After our trip, however, we found out by looking on line that this was Degas’ grave ! I can’t believe I let childish jokes get in the way of me really looking at the grave – I guess we never grow up.

After spending about an hour in the cemetary, we continued on the tour of Montmartre pursuant to the book. I must admit, however, that both Mr. Bean and I got a little bored with looking at artist’s old lofts from the outside and kind of hurried through that part. We then got to what I had been waiting for – the shops ! I hadn’t shopped yet on the trip which is very unlike me so I started here. I got french kitchen items, pictures and more.

Then, when we got to Place du Tertre – the town square where all of the artists are located, Mr. Bean decided he wanted a charcoal portrait drawn of me. I wasn’t too thrilled with idea because (1) I don’t like pictures of myself ; and (2) they wanted way too much money (80 E). Finally, I agreed because Mr. Bean wanted the portrait in his office so I didn’t have to see it ; and one man agreed to do it for 40 E. The funny thing is then we spent $100 to have it matted and framed back home. Anyway, this guy looked like the consummate starving artist – gray haired, in his 50’s, raggedy clothes, the works. It took about 30-40 minutes to do ; and boy was there a crowd around me – something I just LOVED (sarcasm dripping here). Two funny things – although good, I thought it looked NOTHING like me but Mr. Bean did and loved it. Second, I was wearing a turtleneck that day – the artist decided he didn’t like me in that so he drew a lower cut top. So yes, we did the ultimate tourist trap thing there – sorry to the true travelers who are cringing now !

After the portrait was complete, we decided we were hungry. And this is when I made the worst meal blunder of the trip and was so disappointed. Mr. Bean just wanted a crepe but Frommer’s said I had to go to La Crémaillère 1900, 15 place du Tertre, which is allegedly the best restaurant in the square. Well, we disagree wholeheartedly. The service was bad and the food worse. First, we were told to seat ourselves so we went to the courtyard in the back. Although staff saw us, no one came to get our order. We were then told to move inside because it was too windy. So we did and it still took FOREVER to have someone come. We ordered from the prix fix menu there. I had foie gras, mussels in a cream sauce and was supposed to have dessert. Mr. Bean had escargot and the worse steak I had ever seen in my life- it had more fat than meat. And it was burnt – which shocked me especially for France. And when we complained about the steak, the waiter said that was what we got for ordering that – I kid you not. And the service was SOOO SLOW that we didn’t even have our desserts. So I would tell everyone do not go there and I really wish we had had just a lunch crepe.

After our miserable lunch, we went to Sacre Couer. We had been before so it was just a quick stop. During that stop, however, I got yelled at and I mean yelled at by a security guard for taking pictures even though I wasn’t using my flash. I think they don’t allow pictures in there because they want you to buy there pictures. Mr. Bean was ticked at them for their money hungry ways in wanting money for pictures that he gave a big thumbs down to the church which you can see in this picture to the right.

After Sacre Couer, we walked down the hill and went to the garment area where I bought some tablecloths from Provence which I love. We then headed back to the hotel.

On the way back to the hotel, we decided to go get more pictures at the Eiffel Tower - to add to the couple pictures. Thankfully, a nice woman from Australia was willing to take our picture.

We were going to take a rest, but then Mr. Bean decided at 4 p.m that he wanted to see Hotel des Invalides and Napolean’s grave. So, as the facility closed at 5 p.m, we had to hurry. We rushed on the metro and got there at 4:30 p.m. Although I had been there 13 years earlier, I couldn’t remember where everything was, so we were running around trying to find where to go into to see everything. And it was funny because we weren’t the only ones to be doing that. I felt like we were in Amazing Race (a show I would love to be on), trying to find the next clue. We finally found the correct area and went inside. I was sorry that we didn’t have time to get audio tapes; but it was nice to use our museum pass for one last time. There was also an interesting exhibit of Napolean’s true items, even including one of his uniforms and his sword. I truly enjoyed the exhibit. Then Mr. Bean was pleased because they had a huge bookstore so he was able to get a lot of books on French history.

Afterwards, we went over to the Eiffel Tower to go to the top. We got there at about 6 p.m. and got in line. The line at the bottom took about an hour to go through to get tickets. We decided to go to the very top which was 11 E pp. After buying tickets, it took another half an hour to get to the second floor where we got directly in line for the third and top floor. I’m afraid of heights; so during all of this wait, I was very nervous. I promised Mr. Bean, however, that I would stay on top with him as long as he wanted because last time, I made him leave quickly because I was so scared and he jokingly has never let me forget it. And back then, it only took about 20 minutes total to get to the top because it was right after 9/11. This time, it took another 45 minutes in line on the second floor to get the third.

When we finally got to the third, it was PACKED. I was trying not to think too hard about how many people were up there. And I was driving Mr. Bean crazy again because of taking so long to take pictures. He actually got angry with me because he said he wanted to be romantic and I was too busy taking pictures. He had every right to be upset, I just get in this zone of having to have the "Bean" picture.

Funnily enough, the crowds, which were pushing and shoving, got Mr. Bean so angry that, after ten minutes on top, he had had enough and wanted to go down – so this time it was his fault we were so quick! So it took about 20 minutes in line to get back to the second floor. I quickly bought some Eiffel Tower ornaments in the gift store on the second floor and then another ten minutes in line to get to the bottom. We got to the bottom at 9 p.m. So yep, three hours there for 10 minutes on top. Now it’s my turn to never let him live it down.

Afterwards, Mr. Bean was grumpy so we walked back to the hotel from the Eiffel Tower on what was a beautiful night, and I let him go back to the room while I got us a late dinner. I got some more lovely sandwiches and desserts with our lovely Orangina, and we watched our last night of fun French TV.

A Free Man (and Woman) in Paris, Unfettered and Alive . . .

2007-02-17T06:23:00.000-05:00

Sunday, November 26, 2006

I woke up feeling very sad because it was our last morning. We were to be picked up by Bee Shuttle at 9 am. We finished packing and went down to wait. And of course the day we were leaving was the only sunny and blue sky day. Before going, however, we took some last pictures outside our wonderful window that I did not want to leave.

And guess what? Bee Shuttle never showed up. After waiting 45 minutes, we had to get a taxi which cost 60 E and we got to the airport. And CDG was a mad house. We were told to go to one terminal. Then we found out they changed terminals so we had to walk with all of our stuff for what seemed like miles. Then we got through that, unfortunately no changes in our seats for the better. Then we had to ride a bus for what seemed a million miles until we got to the area where our plane was to be. We got to the airport at 10 a.m. and finally to our gate at noon. I wanted to do some shopping but we had no time.

But then we got on the plane and sat there for an hour so we could have done some shopping – I cannot even begin to tell you how bitterly disappointed I was in that.

Then our seatmate brought her dog. He was cute as a button but I felt so bad for him because he was stuck in a small carrier for seven hours under the seat. I was hot in my seat; so I can’t even begin to tell you how hot he must have been. And she fed him valium to keep him quiet – poor thing!

The service on the flight back was better – we could get more liquid to drink. The food was once again good. I had more trouble sleeping this time; but that was because it was a daytime flight, leaving at 1:15 p.m.

We got back to JFK on time (3:15 p.m.), easily got to our car, paid $90 for parking for six days, and had a really easy drive home in 2 and a ½ hours from JFK to Albany, NY, which I thought was great, especially for the Sunday night after Thanksgiving – we were home by 8 p.m.

Conclusion

We had a great time. There were other things I wish we had done: (1) river cruise; (2) eat at the other restaurants I had reservations for; (3) more shopping – I didn’t buy enough; (4) walked Ile de St. Louis; and (5) L’Orangerie, etc. But you know what? One more reason to go back. Not that we would really need an excuse, that’s for sure.

And can you guess which picture we used on our Christmas card ? I'll post the results in a copy of days.

A Lovely Valentine's Present

2007-02-14T11:54:00.000-05:00

Well, after waiting and waiting, it's finally here. Tons of white, white snow. White is the new color for Valentine's Day.

Although every place seems closed, lucky me has to work. We get out at 1:30 p.m. And I can barely see out of my window here in the office, so I'm a bit nervous about driving in it.

Anyone else enjoying a white Valentine's Day? Tigger, I'm jealous of you in California.

In the Best Interest of Who?

2007-02-08T10:08:00.000-05:00

As many of you know, the the Supreme Court of Washington ruled that a ban on same sex marriages was not unconstitutional because marriage is to protect children and since same sex partners cannot procreate like heterosexuals then it is okay to deny them the benefits of marriage. Something VERY similar happened here in the State of New York, causing me to write this letter to the Editor last year, saying that, based upon that philosophy, because I've been married to my husband for eight years without children because of my physical condition, I shouldn't be allowed to be married either.

Well, some pro-same sex marriage groups are taking some very smart action on the issue:

WA initiative would require married couples to have kids

By RACHEL LA CORTE ASSOCIATED PRESS WRITER

OLYMPIA, Wash. -- Proponents of same-sex marriage have introduced an initiative that would put a whole new twist on traditional unions between men and women: It would require heterosexual couples to have kids within three years or else have their marriages annulled.

Initiative 957 was filed by the Washington Defense of Marriage Alliance, which was formed last summer after the state Supreme Court upheld Washington's ban on same-sex marriage. In that 5-4 ruling, the court found that state lawmakers were justified in passing the 1998 Defense of Marriage Act, which restricts marriage to unions between a man and woman. Under I-957, marriage would be limited to men and women who are able to have children. Couples would be required to prove they can have children to get a marriage license, and if they did not have children within three years, their marriages would be subject to annulment. All other marriages would be defined as "unrecognized" and people in them would be ineligible to receive any marriage benefits.

"Absurd? Very," the group says on its Web site, which adds it is planning two more initiatives involving marriage and procreation. "But there is a rational basis for this absurdity. By floating the initiatives, we hope to prompt discussion about the many misguided assumptions" underlying the Supreme Court's ruling.

Gregory Gadow, who filed I-957 last month, said the three-year timeframe was arbitrary.advertising"We did toy with the idea of (requiring) procreation before marriage," he said. "We didn't want to piss off the fundamentalists too much."Gadow said that if the group's initiatives were passed, the Supreme Court would be forced to strike them down as unconstitutional, which he believes would weaken the original ruling upholding the Defense of Marriage Act.But he said he highly doubts any of the initiatives will pass, and that they are being done "in the spirit of political street theater.""Our intention is not to actually put this into law," he said. "All we want is to get this on the ballot and cause people to talk about it."The group's Web site gives another reason: "And at the very least, it should be good fun to see the social conservatives who have long screamed that marriage exists for the sole purpose of procreation be forced to choke on their own rhetoric."

Cheryl Haskins, executive director of Allies for Marriage & Children, agreed with Gadow's group on at least one point about the initiative: "It's absurd," she said.Haskins said opponents of same-sex marriage "have never said that the sole purpose of marriage is procreation.""When we talk about defending the institution of marriage, we're talking about the union of a man and a woman," she said. "Some of those unions produce children and some of them don't."With I-957, "you're dictating people's choices in a way that is utterly ridiculous," she said.

However, Gadow noted that the Supreme Court's majority decision specifically mentioned procreation throughout.The opinion written by Justice Barbara Madsen concluded that "limiting marriage to opposite-sex couples furthers the state's interests in procreation and encouraging families with a mother and father and children biologically related to both."Gadow said the argument is unfair when you're dealing with same-sex couples who are unable to have children together."What we are trying to do is display the discrimination that is at the heart of last year's ruling," he said.

Even the Legislature's most prominent proponent of same-sex marriage, Sen. Ed Murray, D-Seattle, said he thought the initiative was misguided. While the "absurdity" of the Supreme Court decision should be discussed, that discussion needs to take place in the Legislature, he said."I don't think the initiative process should be used to determine the rights and protections of marriage," he said.Murray, one of five openly gay lawmakers in the Legislature, is sponsoring a measure that would create domestic partnerships for same-sex couples and another to allow same-sex marriage. The domestic partnership measure has passed out of committee and a vote on the Senate floor could come within weeks.

The sponsor of the same-sex marriage measure in the House, Rep. Jamie Pedersen, said he supported the effort "to draw attention to the hypocrisy of some of those who oppose marriage equality" but opposed the initiative."For the same reason I don't think same-sex couples should be excluded from marriage, I don't think heterosexual married couples should be forced to procreate," said Pedersen, D-Seattle.Supporters of I-957 must gather at least 224,800 valid signatures by July 6 to put it on the November ballot.The measure's backers said the two additional initiatives they plan would prohibit divorce or separation when a married couple has children, and would make having a child together the equivalent of marriage.Gadow said his goal is to raise $300,000 to spend on advertising on the first initiative.

So thank you to Gadow and his group for being brave enough to bring to light the hypocrisy that once again arises in our government.

I would like to stay married to Mr. Bean though, if that's okay! :)

A Strong Female Persona

2007-02-06T13:53:00.000-05:00

I had just heard that Josh Whedon decided to no longer helm the new "Wonder Woman" movie; and I must admit it really bummed me out. You see, I love Josh Whedon and I love Wonder Woman, so it would have been the perfect match.

And reading that article made me realize I have an infatuation with the strong female characters of some great stories. It all started as a child in the 1970's with Wonder Woman - I wanted to BE Wonder Woman. I even had the underoo's to prove it. And I now have all of the television show DVD's.

Then, I continued with Buffy, the Vampire Slayer. Not the movie so much, the show is what I loved. I watched every episode of every season fanatically.

Next, came Sydney from Alias. Another girl who could kick ass and take names. I didn't miss an episode of that show either.

Now, although they don't have so much in the area of "super powers" per se, I love the strong attitudes of Veronica Mars and even Sandra Oh's character in Grey's Anatomy.

But I do need another female character that kicks rear - any suggestions?

So that is why I'm so disappointed in Lisa Nowak. She, as a NASA astronaut, had to have some strength and character to become what she became. And she threw it all away. For what? I know, it's obvious she has some issues that need to be resolved; however, it still saddens me that someone who should have been and could have been such a great representative of all women goes out like this. I truly hope she gets the help she needs.

Why Do People Act Like this Stupid Day is a Holiday?

2007-02-04T05:42:00.000-05:00

God I hate the superbowl. Well, I just hate football - period. But I really hate how the Superbowl is blown out of proportion - like it's a freaking holiday or something.

What are you eating?

Are you having a party?

Are you going to a party?

Who the hell cares?

I mean, it's on a Sunday night, which means you are stuck going to work the next morning; so how much partying do you really want to do anyway?

And the half times aren't even good anymore since the Timberlake Nipplegate. Rolling Stones, Paul McCartney and now Prince? All old fogies and someone this year who really is the example of football - yeah right. Don't get me wrong, I love the old Prince songs but not so much the new.

Even the commercials aren't as funny anymore.

So, except for the fact that I'm making fun appetizers because I want an excuse for goodies - this day is just another day.

And I could give a rat's ass who wins.

I'll be over at the Animal Planet watching Puppy Bowl III instead. Ruff!

The Weight of the Matter.

2007-02-02T13:36:00.000-05:00

I've been listening to a lot of podcasts such as AJ's and Tigger's and of course Mr. Bean's and read blogs such as Matthew's at Spanking Bea Arthur (which by the way, is becoming a new fave and find the title hysterical), who have all spoken about the issue of being larger in a world that frowns upon it; and those who have had to endure horrible things people say because they think they have every right to.

So I thought I would blog about this issue as I have been on both sides of the fence, literally. I never was mean to others; but I endured comments as a "fat girl" and comments for being the "anorexic girl". So here is my story.

As a young girl, I had a mother who, to make life easier for herself, always kept my hair cut short. The allegedly lovely dorothy hamill look. You know the one I'm talking about. And you know I say "allegedly lovely" because I think the only girls who had it were those whose mothers felt like my mom did about not wanting to have to do a lot of work on their daughter's hair. I hated it because I would be mistaken for a boy all of the time. And because of that, I was teased. This is added to the fact that I was a little chubby as an elementary school girl. The boys were merciless. I had friends; and I can't say I was teased as horribly as some; but I did get teased. And I was always devastated I didn't have a "boyfriend" in fourth or fifth grade when all of my girlfriends did.

Enter into junior high - I was still a little heavy, which the boys never forgot; but then my mom started getting me the dreaded perm. Yep, you guessed it. I looked like little orphan annie with brunette hair - in sixth, seventh and eighth grade. You may remember, in the early 90's, girls who got perms washed their hair that very night they got the perm so it got limper and looked better. Believe me, I now know that no permed hair looks good; but their hair still looked better than my annie hair. But my mom would NEVER let me do that because she paid good money ($40) for that perm and I was going to keep it forever. (She would have a heart attack if she knew how much I paid to get my hair done now!). She also was of the belief that, because I got a perm, I didn't need to do anything to style it other than comb or brush it - no curling, no hair spray, no gel - nothing. Add this to my heavier weight; and I was once again teased - "mushroom head"; "little orphan annie"; "sponge", you get the drill. I also was not allowed to wear makeup. And of course, no boy interested in me.

So going into high school, I decided that, although my mother over controlled every facet of my life, there was one thing she could not control - my weight. So I stopped eating. I ate barely any breakfast, I saved my money I got from lunch and didn't eat, and barely any dinner. I also over exercised. I took dancing about 3 times a week; and every time I drove myself, I would leave an hour early and then run around the school track for miles before it was time to go to class. I lost weight fast. I got so dangerously underweight that even those guys who used to tease me before about being heavy then started actually commenting on the fact that I was too skinny. I got a boyfriend, so of course my starvation was working, and I continued to lose weight. I was about 90 pounds at 5 foot 5.

This continued into college; but with the food at school, I gained the freshman 15. Of course, I had a heart attack about that; but I liked eating the food; so I started a new trend - no more anorexia for me - it's time for bulimia! This was the best of all worlds - I could eat what I want and then get rid of it! So back to 90 pounds. And this continued all through law school as well. And I loved doing it because I didn't get teased anymore about weight.

And then Mr. Bean came along. And he wouldn't let me get away with it - and boy was I mad at him for sticking his nose where I didn't think it belonged. But you know, he got to me; and he showed me that he would love me no matter what I looked like - he loved me for me.

And for a time, I did well. But then a few years ago, I started into the other direction as well. I'm a stress eater; and I love junk food - sweets, carbs all of it. And I would start a diet and fail. In the beginning, I was afraid that I was going to go into the other direction again with anorexia and bulimia and that's why I failed. But then as time went on, I was using that as an excuse to not diet because I wanted what I wanted.

And I had my IVF doctor tell me I should diet to help - I just got mad and didn't do anything even though the statistics showed they were right. Then, in July 2006, I had my cancer doctor tell me; well no yell at me, that I needed to lose weight; that what I was doing to myself was horrible for me, healthwise. Boy was I pissed. I really wanted to punch him. But you know, he was right. And because of him being what I thought was an asshole; I realized that I needed to get healthy. As I'm in my mid-30's (god I hate saying that); I don't want to die young; and even more important, I don't want to not have children because I won't lose the weight - I have enough going against me on this issue without adding to it.

And you know what? For the first time in my life I'm losing weight not for anyone else, not so I won't be teased, I'm losing it for myself, to be healthy, and for my child-to-be one day. And for the first time in my life, I'm losing weight the healthy way - by normal exercise and low carbs and low fat. And I'm doing something I always hated - I drink a TON of water.

So far, I've lost 84 pounds. I have about 20 to go. But in the interim, I like myself for myself and not because of what I do or do not weigh. And no one, and I mean NO ONE, is going to make me feel bad about myself for it.

So to all of you who feel you are less than perfect - you are right. Because NO ONE is perfect - it's an impossiblity. But do not feel bad about yourself - you are a good person and it doesn't matter what others think or do. And no one is better than you or has the right to make you feel less than - but you know what, they only can make you feel that way if you let them. So as Matthew said, stick up for yourself -you are worth it.

On a side note, I always find it ironic when those in minorities who have more than likely been ridiculed, teased, etc. for being in that minority; then do to others what they hated to have done to themselves. It makes no sense to me.

A Horse by any other Name.

2007-01-30T13:36:00.000-05:00

I wasn't planning on writing about Barbaro. Although the story was sad, I knew everyone would write about it - and really what was there to say? I'm not a big horseracing fan, except my annual race track party with friends in Saratoga Springs - but I go for the friends, not really the races.

But that dang horse really got to me.

I was watching the Today show for a few seconds this morning; and it just happened to be a segment about Barbaro. Watching the owners and even the doctors become emotional, with tears in their eyes, about losing their friend was the start of my downfall. Watching the moment when poor Barbaro broke his leg during the race and trying to keep going because he really seemed to love running made me go even further. Seeing Barbaro nuzzling his horsey friend made me feel a lump in my throat.

And then thinking about what if I lost my furbabies McKinley and Jefferson made me start bawling.

Yes, Barbaro was a great horse - even an amazing race horse. But what I will remember him for will not be the fact that he won the Kentucky Derby by such a large margin. I will remember that Barbaro was a furbaby who his family and friends lost but will not forget. Barbaro, like all furbabies should be, was loved.

She's a SuperFreak, SUPERFREAK! She's superfreaky . . .

2007-01-29T08:30:00.000-05:00

Well, maybe not SUPER, per se; but I'm very happy to announce that I am a new member of The Freak Network. I am honored that Pizzababe and Bob have asked me to be a part of it; and I will always appreciate it. Make sure to check the site out as there are many, many, MANY wonderful podcasts and blogs that make up The Freak Network and will give many hours of listening and viewing pleasure. Thank you Pizzababe and Bob!

On another note, Mr. Bean and I got into an argument Saturday morning; and once again, I want to take a poll to see if he was right or if I was correct. You see, Mr. Bean had been having a tough week sleeping, I think because of his kidney stone. So Saturday came, and I got up at about 7 a.m. because, unfortunately, I don't seem to sleep late anymore. Mr. Bean on the other hand, slept and slept and slept and it became noon, 1 p.m., 2 p.m., finally at 3:30 p.m., I decided to go check on him to make sure he wasn't dead. I wasn't going to wake him up, because I assumed he really needed the sleep or he wouldn't be sleeping this long, I just wanted to make sure he was okay.

I peaked into the room and he opened his eyes. "Hey sleephead!" I said. "I just wanted to make sure you were alive; but you sleep as long as you want, you obviously needed it."

Mr. Bean said, "What time is it?"

"3:30 p.m."

"WHAT ?!?!?!?!"

So the rest of the day, Mr. Bean said I ruined his day and it was all my fault because I should have woken him up as he lost a day. I said (1) I have never woken you up before; (2) you have slept to noon or 1 p.m. before and I still haven't woken you up; (3) I don't wake you up as my mom does that to my poor hardworking dad and I think it's unfair and you always say how much you hate that she does that; (4) I'm not your mother so take care of yourself; and (5) You didn't sleep well for a week so I thought you needed the rest.

In counterpoint, he simply repeats that I ruined his day and it's all my fault. (Mr. Bean, if you want to post a comment if you don't think I'm saying your side well enough, feel free).

So subscribers - who is right? Was I correct in letting him sleep; or was Mr. Bean correct in that I should have woken him up earlier? Please post comments below!

Happy Monday (blech!)

French Trip Report Update

2007-01-26T16:48:00.000-05:00

Just wanted to let y'all know I haven't forgotten about my promise of a Paris Trip Report. I'm about half way through - two days written, two more to write. It will be up soon with pictures!

Have a great weekend!

Giving Back the Love.

2007-01-24T08:21:00.000-05:00

Mr. Bean turned me on to the blogging and podcasting world. In that world, I have received a lot of love from people. As a result, I want to return the favor and tell you the blogs and podcasts (in no particular order) which I really love to read and listen to - do yourself a favor and check them out!

Blogs:

1. Mrs. Pi's Page - at http://mrspi.blogspot.com/

She talks about her life and really tells it like it is.

2. Niicelady - at http://www.niicelaady.blogspot.com/

Another great lady who dishes about life and tells her perspective on things.

3. Eric - at http://eluper.livejournal.com/

This guy has a book coming out this year; and I'm going to be able to say I knew him back when. Great sense of humor with a lot of sarcasm.

Podcasts:

1. Mr. Bean - at www.saturndiary.com

Of course I'm going to mention Christiaan Huygens - who created calculus and wristwatches and located the moon Titus around Saturn where he now lives.

2. Tigger at http://homepage.mac.com/tigger_g/MyWebsite/index.html

I can really relate to Tigger as he talks about memories growing up, which I can relate to as we grew up around the same time and has funny and inspired opinions about a lot of things in life.

3. A.J. at http://cuppatea.wordpress.com/

Another great guy who has a lot to say and really keeps me entertained.

4. PizzaBabe and Bob at http://www.pizzababe.com/

Although I don't think the feeling is mutual, I do love listening to their discussions about life and love; and they have great music too.

5. Rebecca Nay at www.trannywreck.com

I think she is FABULOUS! She just had a operation to become who she truly is and even was brave enough to share the experience with us. I have utmost respect for this woman.

6. Andy Melton at http://www.andymelton.net/

He's an absolute sweetheart and has helped us out on many an occasion.

7. TV Guide at www.tvguide.com

If you are a tv junkie, this is the site for you!

8. Madge Weinstein at http://yeastradio.podshow.com/

Another woman who has no problem saying what she feels and will kick your ass if she doesn't like you.

Well, that's all I can think of for now - Enjoy!

Kidneystonegate Update and Other Meanderings . . . .

2007-01-22T08:37:00.000-05:00

Sorry I haven't posted in awhile, but things have been crazy with work, Mr. Bean's kidney stones, Mr. Bean's work, Mr. Bean's best friend in town, a wake and a lot of traveling.

The kidney stone still has not passed and is still causing Mr. Bean a lot of pain. Thankfully, he has a urologist appointment on Wednesday; so hopefully, they can do something for him.

Also, Mr. Bean got a new office and who gets to help clean it? Yep, me. Busted my knee helping out - that's how much I love the old bugger. Place looks pretty good though, if you ask me. You would think being emperor, someone else would do it for him. Also, his site got hacked into - he thinks it's pretty crappy that this happened. I, on the other hand, told him that it's a compliment that someone thought he and his website were special enough to be hacked into. Making lemonade out of lemons, I guess.

On another note, I hope people enjoy my blog - sometimes I think I'm just blathering on too much about nothing. I'm not used to talking about myself; and I seem to do a lot of that here. Some may like it, some not; but I just try to be honest on my thoughts - both good and bad.

On a final note, I'm down 81 pounds. Only 27 more to go!

This Too Shall Pass (or not!)

2007-01-15T10:07:00.000-05:00

Well, Mr. Bean's kidney stone has still failed to pass. And he has been in agony since Saturday, even with the codeine. So I'm nervous, to say the least, because starting today, he can't use the codeine because he has to work. So if the pain is horrible with the codeine, how in the heck is he going to be able to function without it?

We talked about that on his podcast last night which you can get at www.saturndiary.com. Although I'm not on it usually, I was on it last night to yell at him for doing a podcast even with his issues and to help him get over it quicker so I could get him back into bed for his rest.

Everyone keep him in your thoughts that he gets rid of this 3 mm piece of hell!

Well, I got more than I bargained for!

2007-01-14T10:37:00.000-05:00

So, after I wrote the last post, Mr. Bean I think felt guilty so he took me to dinner last night. Well, it didn't last long, because no sooner than us sitting down and looking at the menu, Mr. Bean had a kidney stone attack! We immediately knew what it was because he has had several of them, twice requiring surgery.

So, we left the restaurant and went to the hospital emergency room. Poor thing was in a ton of pain and they wouldn't give him anything stronger than ibuprofen via insulin until they had a cat scan to prove it was a kidney stone. Tigger can tell me if I'm wrong as he is a nurse and all, but I have heard that is because drug users use kidney stones as an excuse to get some strong meds.

Anywho, one cat scan later showed Mr. Bean indeed did have a kidney stone (3 mm) lodged in his lower bladder so they immediately provided him with morphine. Unfortunately, neither that nor the subsequent codeine is helping him much with the pain. I'm really worried about him, so please keep Mr. Bean in your thoughts to pass the stone quickly and to have this over with.

Please leave Mr. Bean good wishes either here or at www.saturndiary.com because he sure could use them.

I said I wanted a Saturday night out, but this wasn't really what I meant.

Well, I now got Mr. Bean into a restaurant, so next step is to stay for a whole meal. One step at a time, I guess! :)

I Need a Boyfriend for Dates - Applications Being Accepted.

2007-01-12T14:27:00.000-05:00

Remember how, in the beginning of a relationship, how you would enjoy time with your new SO by going out to places, a restaurant, movies, walks in the park, and other such fun things? Well, not so much once you've been together for awhile.

Mr. Bean doesn't take me out on dates anymore. For example, I've been wanting to go to the dinner theatre with him for months. MONTHS, I say. It's a great place to see up to date movies while having a nice full meal. Well, finally he said we could go this weekend. I was so excited and I didn't really believe it. And I made reservations. Well, now today, he just wants to "relax". Since when is dinner and a movie not relaxing? It's not like we're going on a 10 day hike in the wilderness and will have to forage for our own food and water. We would sit our butt down, have someone serve us, stuff our faces and watch a good movie. I wouldn't even make him carry me there. But, that's not relaxing to him.

We don't even go to restaurants anymore because it's too "taxing". So, if we don't eat what I make, it's because we're ordering delivery or take out.

So, I've decided that I need a boyfriend who would still like to do those types of "going out" things. But no funny stuff mister because I love my Mr. Bean; and I will reserve that fun stuff for him.

So, if you are a nice, medium age male who would want to go to movies, restaurants and other things; but no funny stuff - just sign up here!

It's the most wonderful time . . . Hell No it's Not!

2007-01-11T11:31:00.000-05:00

I don't know, it seems like everyone is in a crappy mood which has started once the holidays ended. I know I have felt "blah" and "bored" which even shocked Mr. Bean as he said I'm NEVER bored and very, very rarely "blah". This is true as I'm a pretty upbeat person with a happy personality. The past couple of weeks though, I feel like I'm just "there" and not really functioning on any particularly pleasant level.

And I know there are others out there who have felt similarly, and even depressed and unhappy. For those of you (and you know who you are), please know I'm thinking of you.

And usually, this time of year, I would blame it on the weather; but the year I can't. We have had unusually nice (and even warm!) weather and have even seen the sun! Usually, Mr. Bean and I go on a short trip south this time of year; but we can't this year as Mr. Bean is just way too busy ruling Saturn. So that may be the reason. Or it could be the fact that I don't have a day off other than weekends (if I don't work then, which I do A LOT) until Memorial Day weekend. No MLK or President's day for me!

I just hope I get out of this funk.

Anyone else want to whine? I would love to hear it!

God, this week won't end!!!!!

2007-01-05T16:35:00.000-05:00

Why is it that when you have a holiday off, the work week seems longer even though you have to work less days? These past four days have been killer - I'm ready to go!

Also, for some reason, I woke up at 2:30 a.m. and couldn't get back to sleep. So needless to say, I'm exhausted.

Countdown to the weekend . . . .

No New Year's Resolutions for me.

2007-01-03T08:33:00.000-05:00

In the past, each December, I would make New Year's Resolutions for the next year - dieting, exercising and other ones like that. And each year, they would never get done.

So this year, no resolutions for me. I'm just going to continue to be a good person and do the best that I can.

Making resolutions like I have in the past simply is a cause for failure.

But is it a resolution to have no resolutions? Hmmmmm . . . .

Happy Freakin' New Year to Me.

2007-01-02T11:22:00.000-05:00

So I got a lovely start to the New Year yesterday. First, I'm looking out my back door at my wood pile for our fireplace. Someone decided to steal wood from it! I have no idea how we missed hearing the noise from this removal as the wood is stacked against our back wall, but we did. How lame of someone to steal someone else's firewood? If I wasn't so mad, I would be amazed by the genius of someone to do so. That must have been hard to do.

Second, I'm at the store getting groceries. As I bought eggs, I went to open the front passenger door to put them there so they wouldn't get broken. Funny thing, for some reason I could only open the door a few inches. I don't use that door often so I have no idea what's going on. Well, some jerkoff hit the front left side of the car enough so that I can't open the door anymore and wasn't kind enough to leave a note to contact them. It didn't happen where I was, b/c I was parked in a spot where that side had a concrete block next to it. And who knows how long I had it b/c I hardly ever have to use that door. Now another thing to expend money on that wasn't my fault.

So the first 24 hours of my New Year 2007 was just lovely. Let's hope it gets better as the year goes on.

The Loss of a Loved One

2006-12-28T08:11:00.000-05:00

A friend of Mr. Bean and I just lost his "man's best friend" - Loki. Loki was a big lug of a dog who was as gentle and sweet as any dog could be. Loki loved well and was well loved. I know he will be missed.

Thinking about that loss made me realize how short time is with our furbabies. Our cat McKinley is 10 years old and Jefferson (aka J-Dog) is 9 years old. Time flies when you are having fun. And I couldn't imagine my life without them - but the reality is that will happen and who knows how long we have left with them.

So, remember, time is short, hug your furbabies every chance you get, and make their life special b/c they sure are special to your life.

I oughta be in Pictures . . .

2006-12-27T17:47:00.000-05:00

What American accent do you have? Your Result: The Midland "You have a Midland accent" is just another way of saying "you don't have an accent." You probably are from the Midland (Pennsylvania, southern Ohio, southern Indiana, southern Illinois, and Missouri) but then for all we know you could be from Florida or Charleston or one of those big southern cities like Atlanta or Dallas. You have a good voice for TV and radio.
The West
The Inland North
Boston
The Northeast
Philadelphia
North Central
The South
What American accent do you have? Quiz Created on GoToQuiz

Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas . . . .

2006-12-22T13:53:00.000-05:00

And make sure you have some fun!

Well, in a few short minutes, Mr. Bean and I are off to my parents' house for Christmas; and I'm very excited about it! It's the first time I get to see my niece and nephew enjoy Christmas so it should be fun.

So I hope all of my readers have a wonder holiday season as well!

Joyeux Noel!

Testing, 1-2-3; Testing 1-2-3

2006-12-21T08:56:00.000-05:00

Yes, I blatantly stole this from Niicelady (thanks!); however, I thought some of you would like to know a little bit about me:

1. Eggnog or hot chocolate?

I say eggnog, but that's b/c I don't have it all year, so I wonder if I would get sick of it if it was accessible year round?

2. Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree?

Wrapped of course - half the fun is unwrapping them!

3. Colored or white lights on tree/house?

I love white but we do colored b/c Christiaan likes colored best.

4. Do you hang mistletoe?

No.

5. When do you put your decorations up?

We didn't decorate this year b/c no one is coming to see us and we are going away. I did decorate outside though; so no one else would know we are being scrooge-like on the decorations.

6. What is your favourite holiday dish (excluding dessert)?

As a kid, I used to hate Christmas dinner b/c it was all foods I hated: ham, german potato salad, baked beans, cole slaw. YUK! In later years, mom got the hint and made regular potato salad which I do love. This year, I begged for lasagna from my mom for Christmas Eve and she relented (Yeah- it's my fave food!) and my sis is making a turkey dinner (YUM!) for Christmas day. All I have to do is bring a cheesecake - thanks harry & david!

7. Favorite holiday memory as a child?

Dad reading "The Night Before Christmas" every christmas eve, before we went to bed, while drinking eggnog.

8. When and how did you learn the truth about Santa?

I think about 9 or 10, but I hid that I knew until 12.

9. Do you open a gift on Christmas eve?

Never, I won't even let parents put the presents under the tree until after I go to bed, even now!

10. How do you decorate your Christmas tree?

with ornaments from around the world. Whenever we travel, I always buy an ornament -got two from Paris!

11. Snow....Love it?...or dread it?

Don't really care either way. I grew up never having snow at christmas.

12. Can you ice skate?

nope - weak ankles

13. Do you remember your favorite gift?

diamond earrings and necklace from Christiaan

14. Best Christmas gift you ever gave?

this year to Christiaan - I'll tell you after the holiday

15. What's the most important thing about the Holidays for you?

spending it with Christiaan, family and friends

16. What is your favourite Holiday dessert?

my mom's snowball cookies - YUM!

17. What is your favorite Holiday tradition?

"Night Before Christmas" story

18. Turkey or ham on Christmas?

used to be ham, this year turkey (thank god!)

19. Which do you prefer...giving or receiving?

Giving.... although it kills me to wait for christmas b/c I'm so excited to give the gift.

20. What is your favourite Christmas song?

"What Child is This?"

21. Candy canes...yuck or yum?

Double yuk!

22. Favorite Christmas movie or TV show?

A Christmas Story and Polar Express

23. Red or green?

Green.

24. Will you be on Santa's Naughty or Nice list?

Nice - I'm always too nice.

Alright, I want to hear from you now!

Dang I Look Good, Part II

2006-12-21T08:42:00.000-05:00

One of the things I love about this blog is that I get to toot my own horn. In real life (or IRL for you technical geeks out there), it's not really my nature to do such things. But here, all I do is talk about myself!

So, as of August 1, 2006, I have lost a grand total of (drumroll, please)

68 POUNDS!!!!!!!!

It's pretty exciting, especially as I have not eaten one single christmas cookie, except for one bite of one that I made, and I didn't even eat the cookie dough as I was making them, which I usually love! On special occasions, I treat myself, like I did when we went to Paris and Disney World and I did on my birthday. If I didn't, then the dieting would have been just too hard. I also intend to this weekend when I'm home for Christmas. That is what is helping me, I think.

So my goal is about 40 more pounds which I hope to lose by April, 2007.

Wish me luck and Keep your fingers crossed!

The Annual Fattening Christmas Thread

2006-12-18T08:44:00.000-05:00

Well, yesterday was the annual Christmas Treat making day. But I spent A LOT less time this year on goodies b/c I found some yummy and pretty but easy recipes to do. I only made one hard recipe but that was b/c it's Mr. Bean's fave cookie. I thought I would share the recipes with you. The first one is the hard one.

Cherry white chocolate cookies:

1 cup butter, softened
1 cup packed brown sugar
1 cup granulated sugar
2 large eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
3 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 teaspoon salt
2 tablespoons milk
1 cup chopped macadamia nuts
1/2 cup candied cherries
1 1/2 cups white chocolate chunks

Preheat oven to 375 degrees F.

In a medium bowl, with electric mixer, cream butter and sugars together until light and fluffy. Add eggs and vanilla and beat until just combined. Set aside.

Sift together flour, soda, and salt. Add milk to the butter mixture and then add the flour mixture. Mix until just combined.

In another bowl, combine nuts, cherries, and white chocolate. Then add to batter, stirring only to blend. Drop by heaping tablespoons onto a greased cookie sheet, 2 inches apart.

Bake for approximately 11 to 13 minutes. Cool on wire rack.

7 Layer Cookie

layer the following in a baking dish (9x14):

-one stick of melted butter (I usually just put the butter in the baking dish in the oven til melted)

-graham cracker crumbs to cover bottom of dish (enough to absorb the melted butter)

-one bag of chocolate chips

-one bag of butterscotch chips

-nuts (optional)

-one small bag of coconut

-one can of condensed milk (drizzle over coconut, try to cover all)

Bake at 350 for about 25 minutes or until coconut is toasty brown.
Let cool completely before cutting, you can refrigerate to speed up the process.

Pretzel Christmas Wreaths

pretzels
hershey kisses (I used hugs)
m & m's
easy remove reynold's wrap

place on the reynold's wrap on a baking pan the pretzels. Place the hugs in the center. Put in oven at 350 degees for three minutes. Take out of the oven and place m & m's on top of the hugs and press down lightly. let dry overnight.

FUDGE

1 12oz pkg (=2cups) chocolate morsels
1 14oz can sweetened condensed milk (NOT evaporated milk)
1 tsp vanilla extract

Combine the morsels and condensed milk in microwave dish (I use a large glass measuring cup). Microwave on high 3 minutes. Stir until mixture is smooth. Stir in vanilla and any additions. I like mine with nuts but always make half without nuts for other family members. Spread mixture evenly into a lined or greased 8X8 (9X9) pan and chill until firm. I line my square pan with wrap so I can lift the entire thing out when set up. It makes it easier to cut.

For Rocky Road fudge just add 1 C mini marshmallows and 1/2 C chopped nuts. For Black Forest Fudge add chopped red candied cherries, mini marshmallows, and chopped almonds. You can experiment with different mixtures depending on your family's favorites.

Low-Fat Fudge

1 2/3 cup sugar
2/3 cup fat-free evaporated milk
2 Tbsp reduced-calorie margarine
12 oz semisweet chocolate, chopped, (about 1 1/2 cups)(I also did this with peanut butter chips)
14 large marshmallow(s)

1. Coat an 8- x 8-inch pan with cooking spray.
2. Stir together sugar, evaporated milk and margarine. Bring to a boil in a sauce pan, reduce heat to medium-low and cook 3 minutes, stirring constantly.
3. Stir in chocolate and marshmallows. Remove from heat and stir until smooth.
4. Pour into pan and refrigerate until firm, about 2 hours. Cut into 36 squares and serve. (Leave fudge in refrigerator or freezer for a firmer consistency.)

Smores

bag of large marshmallows
a container of dipping chocolate
crushed graham crackers

Crush one package of graham crackers. Heat and melt chocolate according to directions on container. Dip half of marshmallow into chocolate and immediately dip end into crushed graham cracker. Lay on wax paper or easy remove reynolds wrap. Let dry overnight.

Chocolate Pretzel Rods

Pretzel rods
container of dipping chocolate
any preferred topping

Heat and melt chocolate according to instructions on container. Dip half of the rod into chocolate. Immediately dip into a preferred topping (I used Christmas sprinkles but you could also crush up a graham cracker or a candy bar, cookie, etc.) Lay on wax paper or easy remove reynolds wrap. Let Dry overnight.

Enjoy - and try not to gain too much weight from the goodies!

SHE'S ALIVE!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-14T16:10:00.000-05:00

Yes, I know I promised a Paris trip report. And yes, I know it's been 2 and a 1/2 weeks since I last posted. And yes, I know you haven't gotten that promised trip report yet.

Well, too damned bad.

But seriously, I've just been really busy. Get back from Paris trip. CHECK. Catch up on work from that trip. CHECK. Have several pre-op doctor's appointments. CHECK. Have nurse bruise up almost the entire left arm trying to poke my vein FIVE MILLIONS TIMES. CHECK. Have surgery on 12/6/06. CHECK. Sleep off surgery in a drug induced state (mmmmm, morphine, mmmm), for three days. CHECK. Yell at doctors who think I need to be out of work for two weeks because of surgery and who didn't bother to tell me this until after the surgery was done. CHECK. Convince doctors it really is okay for me to go back to work the Monday after it happened. CHECK. Go back to work on said Monday (12/11/06) and try to catch up from work from the four days of work I missed b/c of surgery. CHECK.

So, as I said, I've been busy. And I'll continue to be busy b/c I'm now trying to catch up on Christmas as I'm behind. So this weekend will be a gift wrapping, cookie making, treat preparing frenzy.

So no trip report then either.

But I do promise you a long and extensive trip report will be on this blog no later than February 1, 2007. Until then, if I post here or there and it's not about Paris, just suck it up and enjoy.

So there.

Je suis TRES desolee!

2006-11-28T08:22:00.000-05:00

Well folks, I'm back. And I'm very bummed about it. J'adore Paris and I didn't want to leave. Four days were way too quick. Great hotel, great food, I have some disappointments and wishing I did some things differently, but overall a lovely, lovely stay.

A trip report will be forthcoming, with pix I took, but I want to make sure it turns out great before I post it.

I hope all of you had a great Turkey day. I ate lamb and foie gras for my thanksgiving dinner - YUM!

Au Revoir Mes Amis!

2006-11-21T11:49:00.000-05:00

Well, I'm off to Paris today! In only 18 minutes, Mr. Bean will be picking me up so we can drive down to JFK airport and we fly out of the joint at 7:20 p.m.!

I'm excited about the trip but definitely not the flight. I REALLY hate flying so I'm stressed - but I have some good drugs (prescription meds people, not crack or meth - geez!) so I should be okay.

Wish me good flying; and I'll report back next week!

Ooh La La!

Dang, I look good!

2006-11-16T08:11:00.000-05:00

So, as you all know, I'm going to gay Paris next week for Thanksgiving. So I decided that since (1) I've lost 55 pounds and (2) Paris is known to be a sophisticated and sexy place, it was time for a new sophisticated and sexy "parisian" hairdo for the trip.

And boy did I! I had hair to my shoulders - brunette with blond highlights. I wanted to go short - like Grey's Anatomy's McDreamy's sister's hair short. I even had the pictures ready. Mr. Bean - not so much. In fact, I got a big "NO", "I want it longer" and even more "NO"'s. Well, I finally wore him down. I could go short if I dyed it black. See, I have blue eyes that he loves; so he thought that if I dyed it black, my blue eyes would show even more.

So, I did it last night - it's very short and very, very, VERY dark brown. My hair stylist wouldn't go black b/c she said with my complexion it wouldn't look good. But it's so dark brown it might as well be black.

AND I LOVE IT!!!!!

So now I'm all sophisticated and sexy and ready to go to PARIS!!!!

Another Crazy Weekend While the Best Friend was in Town!

2006-11-13T13:50:00.000-05:00

So my best friend came to town this weekend. We spent a VERY LONG day in NYC. Left at 6 am by amtrak and got to NYC by 8:25 a.m. Left NYC at 9:45 p.m. to get back home by 1 a.m. And yes, although exhausting, was an absolutely blast.

Started the day at the Stardust Diner for breakfast – 1650 Broadway, corner of Broadway and 51st, 212-956-5151. This is the place which had singing waiters/waitresses and was a fun place. It was great for a quick breakfast and was only a block away from Radio City Music Hall. Friend had bagel and fruit cup and I had egg white omelet and fruit cup. With two coffees, it was about $26.

We next went to the 10 am performance of the Christmas Spectacular at Radio City Music Hall. Although I've lived in New York for 12+ years, I still hadn't gone to this show. We only went because I got discount tix ($20 plus fee). We literally had the VERY last row in the third mezzanine, center. I was very worried we couldn't see but the seats were amazing. We had a great view and I even got some great photos. I'm a gal that prefers the balcony over orchestra and I was very pleased. So, I wouldn't worry if you feel you got a seat very far back at this show because all seats seem great. If I can sit in the last row and love it, I wouldn't worry about other seats. The show itself was great, it even had a 3D movie; and at an hour and a half, not too long.

We next walked from 51st to 46th to go to lunch at my fave italian restaurant in NYC: Becco, 355 West 46th Street – walk to 46th street, take a right and then between 8th and 9th avenue, right side. I went here last year due to a Fodorite's recommendation and now won't go anywhere else for italian. I had their pasta special with antipasto and then three all you can eat pastas - this day, a mushroom ravioli, bolognase and another yummy pasta, a bottle of wine (all are only $25 each) and my friend had a tenderloin of beef with arugula (YUM!) and their most delicious bread. It was about $72 before tip and worth every penny.

We then waddled over to the to Broadway show “The Wedding Singer” – at 2 pm. - Al Hirshfeld Theater - 302 W 45th Street | between 8th & 9th Avenues, which we enjoyed very much. The theatre was smaller than I expected; and as usual, the seats VERY crowded. We had the balcony, middle 5th row and loved our seats. The show was great; however, if you are one who does not like swear words, you may not like this show as there were quite a few. I didn't care, but I wondered how the parents felt with children. I would totally recommend this show.

After the show, we walked back up broadway to go to the Top of the Rock at the Rockefeller Center. It's on the 67th floor and was stunning. There is also a surprise in the elevator on the way up which I won't spoil here, but it was really neat. We got $2 off coupons from Radio City, but it was still expensive at $18. I thought it was pricey; but we enjoyed the view. The only thing I didn't like was that the way they have the edge, you can't really see down at the streets below, you can only see out.

We then continued our walk (and looking at all of the purse street vendors - my friend bought 4 purses and by the end I told her if I saw one more purse I was going to scream) and we went to dinner at the Jeckyll and Hyde Club at 1409 Avenue of the Americas, New York, NY 10019, 212.541.9505, on Avenue of Americas b/w 57th and 58th street, left side of street if walking north. For some reason she loves this place, and as it was her vacation, I let her choose. It is a four story restaurant that is like a haunted house with characters and monsters that entertain you while you eat. We had to wait in line to get in which took about 30 minutes, but once we were in, we got seated right away. Dinner was fine (I was still stuffed from dinner so I didn't eat much) and this would be a place kids were really love.

So all in all, a great, exhausting trip which my best friend loved. We got on our train at 9:45 p.m. and the next thing I knew, it was midnight and we were almost back to our station.

Sunday, we rested (thank god) and went to see the Will Ferrall movie "Stranger than Fiction". So not your usual Will Ferrall movie but it was VERY good. It was a deep movie and reminded me a bit of "Being John Malkovich" and I was really impressed with Will. I would recommend it. I did, however, feel sorry for the four preteen boys behind us as this was not what they were expecting, I'm sure. They were very good though so I appreciated it.

We then went to dinner with some friends of mine in town for her final night.

She left this morning and I miss her already. Love ya babe!

I'm a sucker for a good show!

2006-11-09T17:07:00.000-05:00

So my best friend is coming to town tomorrow - YIPPY! So as a result, we are spending a REALLY long day in NYC - taking a train down at 6 am, going to the 10 am show of Radio City Music Hall's Christmas Spectacular, going to lunch at my fave italian restaurant Becco's, going to see the "Wedding Singer" on Broadway at 2 p.m, going to the Top of the Rock, and going to dinner at the Jekyll & Hyde Club and taking the 9:45 p.m. train back! Talk about an exhausting but fun day!

Then sunday we're going to Cooperstown. By Monday, I'm going to be a basketcase!

Hope everyone has a good weekend!

Thank God the Elections are Over

2006-11-08T09:03:00.000-05:00

I think November 8, 2006 is one happy day. And it's only because this date means the elections are finally over. No more flyers, no more ads, no more Politicians' evil tyrades. (okay, so it didn't rhyme as much as I wanted it to).

I really think this year was bad with all of the slams politicians made towards each other. But it was interesting to see the upsets.

Now, I can be at peace without political ads in my life. How will I survive until next September?

Merry Christmas to me!

2006-11-01T08:50:00.000-05:00

So, I just found out I have to have surgery in December. Second time this year and third time overall. Not a good thing to find out about, to say the least. The drama never seems to end; and boy, do I HATE drama.

So think good thoughts for me please - thanks!

Happy Halloweenie from your Happy Hallowed Beanie!

2006-10-31T08:06:00.000-05:00

Here's to everyone who loves Halloween as much as Mr. Bean and I do!

Boo to YOU!

What a Rough Week

2006-10-30T08:24:00.000-05:00

Well, once again, I have been slack on posting but last week was just so darn cruddy I wasn't in the mood.

It was my birthday, and it's getting a bit tough because I feel like at my age I should have a child by now and no luck so far. Then, other than my fantastic husband and a couple of friends, people either forgot my birthday or obviously put no thought into a present for me. I got a walmart gift card - what the heck is up with that?!?!?!?!?!?

Then, I was supposed to start a procedure to help with the baby thing this past week, but because of some more complications, I couldn't and instead I get to see my cancer doctor instead. No, I don't have cancer yet, I'm at that "in between" stage which has no name where my cells are essentially pre-cancerous - but not cancerous - whatever the hell that means.

And there were some problems at work.

So that's my whining in a nutshell. One good thing of note - I'm down 47 pounds so far and that's even with my week at Disney where I ate everything that didn't eat me first. So not too shabby.

Also, I starred in my podcast debut - go over to Saturn Cast and hear the awesome special that was done on October 29th - it's good stuff.

Loved Ones Making My Life Easier.

2006-10-17T10:03:00.000-05:00

As you know from yesterday, I was bitching about plane fares being too expensive. This was after several attempts to find a decent flight price to go home for Christmas. As you may also know, Mr. Bean (aka Christian Huygens, aka Bubbe, aka Handsome, aka Mr. RadioFanatic) hates the 11 hour drive to my house.

Well, I just got a call from Mr. Bean telling me not to stress about driving home that it will be just fine, not a big deal at all. He took a load off of my mind to say the least.

So, I said to him, you saw my blog, didn't you? And he hadn't! It was just a big coinky dink! Gotta love that man! Love you Bubbe!

Damn Airlines!

2006-10-16T15:48:00.000-05:00

This is just wrong - just wrong I tell you. It shouldn't be cheaper for me to fly to France - ANOTHER COUNTRY PEOPLE ACROSS A BIG, BIG AREA OF WATER - than to my hometown in the USA.

It's absolutely crazy. The only way I can fly home for Christmas is if I want to spend $500 per ticket. A $1000 to fly home. And not on a great airline either.

There are many things I love about my hometown, but its airport and crappy, expensive airline ain't one of them.

Looks like I'll be driving 11 hours home. YUK!